"No, I won't interfere in your mother and son's life." The woman's response made her mother-in-law regret it.

After Lu You's divorce, he revisited Shenyuan many times and wrote a poem "Spring Tour": "Shenjiayuan is in full bloom in those years. I also believe that beauty will eventually become soil, and it is too late to dream. " Figure network.

In his twilight years, he was full of thoughts and guilt about his ex-wife. The two are happily married and the husband and wife love each other. Originally, my son and daughter-in-law had a good relationship, so parents should be happy, but Lu You's mother felt abandoned because of her son's good relationship with daughter-in-law.

Over time, the sense of coldness increased, and eventually jealousy gave birth to hatred, which led to the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Let the son be forced by his mother's pressure and finally part ways with his wife Lao Yan.

It can be seen that the marriage breakdown caused by the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has existed since ancient times. But why do some mothers have a bad relationship with their sons and daughters-in-law? In fact, the reason is very simple. This part of the mother-in-law, just like Lu You's mother, regards her daughter-in-law as a "lover in a horizontal knife" between her and her son.

"I don't know how expensive rice is until I manage it. I don't know how grateful my parents are until I raise a child." How hard it is to give birth to a life. Every mother, from October of pregnancy to the growth of the last child, has devoted countless efforts, and others can't feel the same.

Although we all say that the best parent-child relationship is to quit gracefully when the child grows up, especially after getting married and starting a family, and let the child control his own life. However, in the process of raising children, mothers and children form a deep emotional attachment, which is also possessive.

For some mother-in-law, this possessiveness is reflected in the fact that my son's love can only be given to me. So when the daughter-in-law appeared, the mother-in-law found that her son's love for herself decreased, and more was given to the woman who had entered halfway. Mother-in-law will inevitably feel uncomfortable, unable to adjust herself, and eventually become hostile to her daughter-in-law, and the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will appear.

This is actually the main reason why some daughter-in-law is not liked by her mother-in-law. Although they are very filial and reasonable, conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law occur frequently.

Lu Li and her ex-husband Zhao Gang are a loving couple. To some extent, they are a match made in heaven, two of a kind. Who would have thought that such a perfect marriage would eventually come to an end. The saddest ending of marriage is that we still have feelings for each other, but we have to separate.

My widowed mother-in-law consciously took "playing hard to get" and successfully intervened in the world of her son and daughter-in-law.

Introduced by a friend, Lu Li and Zhao Gang fell in love at first sight. Love time, good feelings. Although the separated parents know the family situation of the future son-in-law, they have been obstructed and worried. But the daughter insisted, and finally this relationship continued.

In fact, Lu Li also knows that her parents' worries are not unreasonable. She's not in love. Mainly during the period of love, the prospective mother-in-law performed well. I am kind and enthusiastic about this future daughter-in-law. Usually get along with each other, but also let Lu Li feel the tenacity and kindness of her mother-in-law who lost her husband and raised her children in her early years.

The two sides hit it off, the family agreed, and they got married soon. When the wedding room and her husband's family were in the same community, it was a distant idea. I don't know if she later encountered a contradiction between her mother-in-law and her daughter-in-law. Did she regret her original decision? She wants to be close to her mother-in-law, in case something happens, but because of the proximity, although the young couple live alone, her mother-in-law comes almost every day except for not living together.

Actually, Lu Li doesn't mind her mother-in-law coming. After all, she is her husband's mother, and everyone is a family. But she soon discovered that her husband's mood was completely influenced by her mother-in-law's words and deeds. At first, my mother-in-law came to do something, and there were rules to follow when she left. But after a while, it suddenly changed.

My mother-in-law has less time to come over, and even if she comes over, she will be upset. I still won't say what it is for. If I ask too many questions, I will ask my son very grievance. Do you think my mother is annoyed now? Zhao Gang went crazy more than once and began to regret why he had to move out and live alone.

Lu Li knows that her husband and mother-in-law have deep feelings. Judging from the current situation, my mother-in-law is very good to herself and gets along well. At the beginning, I insisted on a separate wedding room just to avoid the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, since this problem does not seem to exist at present. There is nothing wrong with living under the same roof for the sake of my husband's mood. Many people are still very lively, aren't they?

So she offered to let her mother-in-law move in together, and the house at home was empty or rented, depending on her own wishes. Zhao Gang was overjoyed at that time, and Lu Li felt that he had done a very decent thing. But the day my mother-in-law just moved in, her eyes and expression revealed that her purpose was successful. This puzzled Lu Li, but she thought she was thinking too much, but she soon realized that she was right.

Marriage is not romantic, but more tea, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. Lu Li found that her mother-in-law was different from before. Everything she does and says will be misinterpreted by her mother-in-law, and then she will complain to her son.

For example, I change the sheets once a week. On the surface, her mother-in-law said that her daughter-in-law was good, but behind her back, she said that her daughter-in-law disliked her uncleanness. For example, a daughter-in-law sometimes makes a light diet for her mother-in-law for physical reasons. On the surface, the mother-in-law said that her daughter-in-law was kind to the elderly, but behind her back, she said that her daughter-in-law was not willing to spend money on her. ...

Her mother-in-law has done many such things, and Lulu has also been complained by her husband. Although Zhao Gang knew that his wife was right, after discussion, as long as his mother cried, he could not help complaining about her.

It is wrong to do it or not to do it. If all this can be tolerated, the most outrageous thing is that the mother-in-law can't see that her son and daughter-in-law have a good relationship. Generally speaking, it is normal for couples with good feelings to show a little intimacy in their daily lives and at home. It's normal to feel bad for each other and then help with things together. But the estranged mother-in-law can't see this.

Every time she sees her son and daughter-in-law have a good relationship, talking and laughing, she gets angry. Then do something deliberately to let his son know that he is unhappy. A son who has deep feelings for his mother will leave his wife immediately to coax his mother.

This kind of thing, once in a while, no problem. Occasionally, Lu Li feels that the key to the overall happiness of this family has become her mother-in-law. Only when the mother-in-law is in a good mood will the atmosphere at home be good, otherwise it is unfilial to laugh at home. At home, she is polite to her husband, and it is best not to say anything, and then look at her mother-in-law and her son talking and laughing, so that her mother-in-law can have a smiling face.

Lu Li thinks this kind of life is terrible, and more importantly, her husband doesn't think so, so let her not care about her elders. We all know that negative emotions can make your life a mess. Soon, things that let the backlog of emotions break out came. On his birthday, Zhao bought cakes and presents and cooked a good dish himself.

Lu Li was very happy when she came back, although her mother-in-law kept nagging that her son was not very kind to herself. But because of this accident, Lu Li didn't take it to heart. She always held her mother-in-law and said that her mother-in-law was very educated. But my mother-in-law still can't accept it. When eating, just because Zhao Gang picked up the food for his wife first, she dropped the chopsticks directly.

His mouth is dirty, his speech is ugly, and his parents who are separated from each other are also involved. For a long time, forbearance suddenly broke out at this moment, and Lu Li simply lifted the table and had a big fight with her mother-in-law. Mother-in-law can't argue with her daughter-in-law. She turned to divorce her son. Zhao Gang knows the ins and outs. He knew that his mother was wrong first, but in order to appease his mother, he filed for divorce.

Lu Li readily agreed and quickly completed the divorce procedure. My mother-in-law seems to have just reacted at this time. How can a son and daughter-in-law really divorce when they say divorce? She regretted it and began to apologize, but it was too late. Some things, even if you can forgive and let go, but the shadow will always exist. Lu Li can't forget the days when she lived with her mother-in-law.

If Zhao Gang's mother only regrets at first, but after her son's divorce, she refuses to remarry anyway, which makes her feel scared. She began to call Lulu and said, "Daughter-in-law, I apologize to you, and then I will move out. Come back and live a good life with my son. " Lu Li is not without regrets in his heart, but he also clearly realizes that he and Zhao Gang can't go back.

Because even if her mother-in-law won't relapse in the future, her mother-in-law's "concession" this time will always be a thorn in their relationship. A son will be more grateful to his mother. Lu Li tried to hold back her sobs and said coldly, "No, aunt, I won't stop you from falling in love."

A marriage that could have been happy today is actually very embarrassing. In fact, the estranged mother-in-law is not an "evil" mother-in-law, but it still leads to the breakdown of her son's daughter-in-law's marriage. In the final analysis, it is her "possessiveness" to her son. If she can't really understand what the best parent-child relationship is, if her son marries again in the future, the result may still be the same.