A wise man will not elevate himself by belittling others.

At work, there are always some people who only want to make profits by belittling and crowding out others all day long. They always deny others' achievements, find fault with others, but brag about themselves. Such people not only have no good impression among colleagues, but also will not be taken seriously in the eyes of leaders. How can a person who spends all his thoughts on finding faults in others have time to do serious things? A wise leader will naturally think of this.

In fact, such people are not smart, but stupid.

When chatting with such people, you will find that it is much easier to criticize and belittle others than to praise them. Some people like to belittle others and raise themselves, often out of jealousy or other reasons. This kind of person should be superior to others everywhere, he will interrupt everything you say, and he will prove that he knows more than you. In fact, belittling others did not raise themselves, and they did not get any benefits. What they got may only be insults from others.

There is a selection activity going on in the forest, and I want to choose a model worker. Phoenix, as the chief judge, solicited opinions from other animals extensively. On this day, it asked the sparrow, "Sparrow, you are well-informed, and you know a lot of animals. Can you say which animal should be elected as a model worker?"

The sparrow said, "This is not easy to choose!"

Phoenix volunteered, "What do you think of the swallow? It is diligent enough."

The sparrow took out a small notebook made of leaves, turned to one page and said, "On June 1st, the swallow threw a feather into his master's living room; On the 3 rd, it scattered two grasses in the master's yard; On the 6 th, when it was in the nest, it scattered a lot of dirt on the threshold of its owner ... So, it can't be a model! "

"so, what about the rooster? He will ring on time every morning. " Phoenix asked again.

"Rooster, it's not that punctual!" The sparrow turned to one page in his small notebook and said, "On May 8th, it called one minute early; On May 1th, it was called 3 seconds late again. You see, it was not punctual enough! "

"So, what about rhubarb dog?" Phoenix asked patiently.

"it is! How rude! " The sparrow patted the notebook, turned to a page and said, "On May 3rd, when it chased the wild cat, it trampled its owner's vegetable field;": On May 18th, it barked at the guests, scaring them into the house ... "

Phoenix finally got impatient and said," If you say so, no animals are qualified? "

The sparrow quickly denied: "Of course not, there must be qualified ones."

"oh, who is it?"

"me, that's me!" Sparrows laughed.

"you?" Phoenix thought for a moment and said bluntly, "It turns out that you devalued everyone just to raise yourself. Then I'd like to ask, how can you be called a model worker when you use that small notebook to remember other people's problems all day?"

The sparrow was speechless when asked, and was ashamed.

To be a man, you should be lenient and hard on yourself, and pay more attention to the advantages and strengths of others, instead of raising yourself by belittling others. You should know that people who are critical of others will have no friends, and you will get along with others better if you take back your critical eyes.