Children like to wear adult shoes? Understanding the reasons behind behavior and doing three things well are more beneficial to the development of IQ.

Lily's (pseudonym) child is one year and five months old. Recently, she has developed a new skill, and she is keen on "wearing big shoes with little feet" every day. Mother's slippers, flat shoes and high heels should be taken out for the children to wear. Even if you stumble, you still can't dispel the enthusiasm of the children. They are so happy.

Careful parents will find that children will gradually open up various new skills after 1 year old and like to play with some adult items. Why do children behave like this? What does it mean that children like to wear adult shoes when they appear? How should parents deal with their children's behavior? This article will solve the problem for parents.

Children like to wear adult shoes, and some parents will laugh at their behavior; Some parents will stop and tell their children that they can't wear them, and they will fall off, ignoring the reasons behind their behavior. In fact, children like to wear adult shoes because they have conscious thoughts and behaviors.

Driven by curiosity, I imitated my parents.

After 1 year, children's cognitive ability develops continuously, about 1 year and a half, and children's cognitive ability will gradually develop by observing adults' behavior. When children find that their parents' shoes are different from their own, they will be curious. Driven by curiosity, they will imitate the appearance of adults and walk in shoes.

Children think it's fun.

Walking in adult shoes is different from wearing your own shoes. The special feeling and freshness brought by "little feet wearing big shoes" will induce children to try to walk in various shoes of adults, which is very fun and interesting.

Children like to wear adult shoes, why do parents need to be vigilant? This is because from this moment on, it means that the child is about to enter the development period with strong imitation ability. Parents' words and deeds from this moment on will become the imitation objects of children, and both good and bad may be completely accepted by children. How should parents respond? Do these three things well, and your child will have a higher IQ in the future.

Do a good job of teaching by example.

No matter how hard it is to take care of children, parents should give full play to the role of teaching by example: don't always quarrel in front of children, don't always yell at children, and don't make some wrong demonstrations in front of children. Because these bad behaviors of parents have a great negative impact on children at this stage.

Try to be patient with children, show them a positive and optimistic side, and let them feel the warmth of the family, which is conducive to their sense of security and good behavior habits.

Don't always say "no" to children.

Children at this stage usually have no sense of danger, wearing adult shoes, adult clothes, using adult goods, learning from adults and so on. This is because children are imitating adults. Parents should not always say "don't take it", "don't wear it" and "don't move" under the condition of ensuring children's safety, which will make children feel insecure, because no matter what they do, they will get a negative answer from their parents.

Cultivate children's imitation ability

Children like to wear adult shoes and clothes because they like to imitate. Parents can use this to give full play to their children's strong imitation ability and imitate their own clothes and socks. This will not only help children learn to take care of themselves slowly, but also cultivate their observation ability.

Children like to wear adult shoes. Although this is a sign of the development of children's imitation ability, it will also bring many security risks. Parents need to take some safety measures according to their own situation.

Try not to let children wear high heels.

Adults have a deep understanding that high-heeled shoes take a long time to sprain, and sometimes it is easy to hurt muscles and bones. Parents should try to put away their high heels. In order to prevent accidents, don't let children imitate them.

(2) Children wear adult shoes, and it is best not to wear too old shoes.

Children like to wear adult shoes, and parents should try not to let their children wear shoes that are too old, worn or sick at home. Because there are many bacteria or athlete's foot in these shoes, it is easy to infect children, so parents should try to avoid wearing these shoes for their children.

(3) Parents had better watch children walking in adult shoes.

Parents had better watch when children wear adult shoes. Especially when walking on uneven ground, to avoid falling accidents. It is also a dangerous behavior for children to walk in adult shoes. Although parents don't have to stop it seriously, it is necessary to do a good job in protecting children.

CiCi's mother sent a message: "Little feet wear big shoes", which is a behavioral hint from the child. I am independent. Everything you say and do is my study goal. If you want me to be a good boy in the future, you should be my role model.