My mother-in-law accused me of having an affair.

I have been in love with him for the seventh year. To tell the truth, when I was in love, I wanted to break up with him because of his withdrawn personality and his parents' opposition. But my temper is too stubborn. The more people don't believe my eyes, the more I want to show them.

Later, I got married in a hurry because I was pregnant, and I have been unhappy since marriage.

If I don't go to work, I have no income. He is lazy, unwilling to suffer hardships and can't earn any money. Sometimes he will contact his parents.

Living with my parents-in-law, I have never been used to their family life. So that after only a few days of marriage, my heart is full of regrets. I regret marrying him. He never listens to my idea of cooperation. He thinks it doesn't matter if he earns less money, just save it.

Plus we have a daughter, so we don't have to worry about buying a house. In this way, he lived a stable life without any friends. If you have unhappy things in your work life, vent them on your husband and wife's life.

I think he is a little abnormal. It is stipulated that every other day, if I don't satisfy him, even every day. If I don't obey, hit me.

Now that I'm at work, my mother-in-law always instigates her son, saying that he is useless and can't control me. I even nodded, saying that I was fooling around outside, I had good connections, and there was a man outside to support me.

I will never forget this insult.

Now I want to divorce him. He hit me first. I'm going to court. When he saw that I was serious, he ran to my relatives and friends and wept bitterly, admitting his mistake and saying that he loved me and would never hit me again.

I admit that he loves me, which is a bit crazy!

He said that if I had to divorce, I would die. If I do, I will find another man and let us all die! Help me think about what I should do. Do I have a good reason for divorce?

Chicken ribs-things that have no value or interest (but you can't bear to throw them away)

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Gender: male

Personal signature: lost road, lost road, found road.

Eating is tasteless, but it is a pity to abandon it. Now your feelings are as hard to decide as chicken ribs. Like you said, at first, you have to hold your breath and talk to him. Only a few days after you got married, you regretted it. Just like building a house, how to build bricks without laying a good foundation.

This marriage can be described as a failure. It is rare that you can persist under various pressures for seven years. Another seven-year itch? The figures studied by experts seem to have some truth.

What you are facing now is not the seven-year itch, but whether you have the will to live with your husband.

Although you were hasty when you got married, you should know something about your husband. Since you believe in your vision, why do you go back on your word now? Is it time that makes him not the "potential stock" you want, or does your mother-in-law make you flustered by saying ugly things?

I suggest you think it over. If you really can't stand this man and his family, the decision to divorce is simple. Go directly to the court for prosecution.

I can tell you responsibly that according to "Several Specific Opinions on How People's Courts Determine that Husband and Wife's Feelings have Really Broken" issued by the Supreme People's Court19891,there are 14 kinds of situations in which husband and wife's feelings have really broken, and n kinds of them are in line with your present situation, so don't worry about insufficient reasons.

As long as you cross your inner threshold, nothing else is a problem.

It's up to you whether to leave or not. This is not my suggestion. Let me talk about the problems between your husband and wife.

The first is the income problem. Now that we are husband and wife, whoever earns money is family income. Don't worry about who earns more and who earns less.

If you have to break up with each other, there are only two ways: AA system or divorce.

Although the life value of society depends on the material basis to measure one or two, it is not an absolute standard. It is said that money is a grandson, and you can earn it after spending it. For a Kong Fangxiong, it is a bit superficial for husband and wife to turn against each other.

Then there is husband and wife life. This matter is absolutely a private matter between two people. There is no scientific basis for how much is needed. As long as you are healthy, as long as you are with me, don't say anything once a day. Once a day. No problem.

If you have to force each other, it will involve the bad topic of domestic violence. Most people have limited energy. They spend a lot of time in a day's work and are tired of socializing. When they get home, it is estimated that they don't have so much energy to linger between beds.

Finally, it is about the evil mother-in-law. In my opinion, socialism, everyone is equal. If you respect me, I will repay you. If people don't treat you like a person at all, why are you talking to her?