If you love someone, you will hate her even more.

If you love someone, you will hate her even more. This hatred is far stronger than all human feelings.

He has a strange personality. Some people have known each other for a long time, but they don't know each other. Some people want to tell her everything at first sight.

Because I'm stupid, I'm paranoid, I can't get over it, I'm not forgetful, I hate it, I'm wordy, I'm shameless, and I can pester you endlessly.

Why do you want to prove something to others? Life is better, but for yourself.

How can I make you feel so sorry for others?

Love signature: always be the first-class self, not the second-class others.

I love you so much that my heart is broken and gone.

I open my hands to show you that I have no hidden weapons or happiness in my hands.

When you left, you took all my love without saying sorry!

Time has taught me that everything is hidden in my heart, not in my heart. ˇ

Maybe I'm not the only one who doesn't trust his girlfriend anymore.

I have too many coincidences with you, only one is missing.

I'm going to have the cutest grades with the schoolmasters soon, and I'm a little shy to think about it.

I love you. I have said this sentence countless times, but the more I say it, the less I understand its meaning.

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Pale and powerless-like struggling ants

He doesn't love me. I can see from his selfishness.

There is a man, and I owe him too much.

Whether others respect you or not is someone else's business; Whether you deserve respect or not is your business.

The dog barks at two o'clock in the morning, much like that night when I loudly told you not to go.

I am a flower and a national treasure of the motherland.

I began to try to change myself a little every day, even if it was only a little, I had seen enough.

Standing at the crossroads of time, every time I look back, my heart is full of acacia and tears.

I won't like you anymore. I'm leaving you after this passage is passed.

Whether it is love or anything, I have never been confident that I have everything.

If my rival in love falls into the water and can't swim, and I happen to be able to swim, I will jump into the water and swim in front of her.

I love you. I have said this sentence countless times, but the more I say it, the less I understand its meaning.

What is love and what is helplessness? Quietly facing each other, whether I am white.

Silent night, I miss your tenderness alone, and the painful memory will remain forever.

Put it down, you won't care so much, just looking for an embarrassing excuse that you can't put it down.

People who have never lost anything will never know what it feels like to lose.

Don't torture me any more, my heart has been cut off, and it's not blood that comes out, it's the fault of loving you.

I just want to keep the rest of my pride.

Waiting is the strongest prison. If you can't get out, no one else can get in.

I'm surrounded by you and say you just want to marry me. Why are you lying with her now?

I smoke, first because of you, and then because of myself.

If you are not discouraged, don't give up. As long as we move towards the goal, we are moving forward!

There is a joke called love, which makes you laugh and cry, but still refuses to let go.

Once met, the total pressure never met.

The dog barks at two o'clock in the morning, much like that night when I loudly told you not to go.

Don't let me know that you are not doing well, don't let me down, and live a good life.

I won't like you anymore. I'm leaving you after this passage is passed.

I'm afraid that one day I will dress adults in decent clothes.

Honey, love me well, okay? Let's stop fooling around.

Once upon a time, my ears were greedy and my songs were greedy; Now my mouth is timid, but I think love is not sincere.

Tell me if you hate someone. Hating someone can make you feel better?

Victim complex

Friend c jun is a strong and good man. No matter what kind of conflict occurs, she always occupies an absolutely rational position. In short: I am so nice, so accommodating, so wronged, do you still want to do this? ! You are a naked mistake, so I can do whatever I want with you, because you are a sinner and I am a victim!

C lives with her parents-in-law when she needs someone to take care of her children. Of course, there are frictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Husband is a person who is not good at dealing with the contradiction between two women, which often makes her feel very dissatisfied. Slowly, the contradiction between C and her in-laws became more and more fierce. Of course, they are bored with each other, and everyone thinks the other is wrong.

When they got married, my father-in-law promised that the young couple would invest in buying a house in the future. However, when their children were born and needed to settle down and buy a house, my father-in-law stopped paying for various reasons. Of course, parents have no obligation to sponsor their children to buy a house, but after all, they promised to go back on their word temporarily, which made C and her husband very angry. Helpless, they owe a large amount of foreign debt, which makes C's husband completely chilling and firmly draws a line with his parents, feeling that their parents are too cruel.

Sometimes, love is deep and hate is strong. The closer you are, the higher your expectations are, and if you are slightly dissatisfied, you can't help but hate it. C relieved: I have long said it was your parents' fault, but now I believe it. Anyway, I don't have to associate with them in the future. Stay away from them. Because they are wrong, we are victims, so we can ignore them with peace of mind and treat them as we want. Who told you to do something wrong?

However, on holidays, C's husband no longer receives phone calls and greetings from his family, and he hasn't been home to see his parents for a long time. C can see that he is very sad. Hating someone can't make things simple, let alone make both sides feel better. Just use one thing to punish each other, the time is uncertain, because I am an absolute victim, I will not forgive.

Once, C told me these things, and his face seemed to be enjoying Roewe as a victim. Yes, you hurt me. You are very unreasonable, and you continue to be unreasonable again and again. I have absolute public opinion and moral commanding heights. Although I am a victim, I have the advantage of blaming, and I can constantly scold your mistakes. All my dissatisfaction and complaints have been satisfied in this repeated reprimand.

When I started to explain something from the perspective of Mr. C's parents-in-law, Mr. C immediately panicked and stopped me from continuing. Yes, she doesn't want to accept any of their reasons and difficulties, because once they have a reasonable excuse, then I am not a victim, I have no right to continue to blame, I can't just ignore them, I can't shirk all my responsibilities, I need to accept my own problems and learn how to get along with them.

Obviously, this is what C doesn't want to do, because she can't learn to get along with her parents-in-law, and can't face her own problems and change herself. She wants to cover up her mistake, so she would rather be a victim, so she doesn't have to do anything. It is much easier to hate someone than to change yourself.

Sometimes, the victim seems to be in a weak position, but it is a shield that you unconsciously wear and can be used repeatedly. The subtext is: it's all your fault. You are so miserable. You did something wrong. Then you have no reason to ask me for anything, so that I refuse to grow and change. After all, it is too painful to admit that you are not good.

It's your fault.

Little d had a car accident in high school. At that time, his face was scarred. He was depressed for a time, stayed at home and never went to school again. He was admitted to the county key high school, but because his father didn't solve the hukou problem for him, he could only go to an ordinary high school, so he has been suffering. It was in that ordinary high school that he had an accident. Although there are scars, I can't see them now. The brain has been traumatized and has healed.

However, he blamed the car accident on his father because he didn't solve the hukou problem. He was studying in a key high school, so he wouldn't have an accident. It seems that the reason is far-fetched Even in ordinary high schools, accidents can only be accidents or carelessness. You can't blame anyone. Even if you go to a key high school, you may not have an accident.

But the identity of the victim can make him constantly condemn his father, so he can not be responsible for himself. So, after the accident, although he basically recovered, he never went to school again and was parasitic at home. Up to now, men in their thirties have sound limbs, a clear head and no visible problems, but they don't go to work and are idle, treating themselves as a basket case, waiting for their parents to raise them.

A lie will become a fact if told a hundred times, so my father always thinks that he destroyed the child, so he bears the crime, thus supporting a disabled person with sound limbs without complaint.

The identity of the victim can make little D feel at ease to enjoy this compensation. He can always enjoy the preferential treatment of others when he was a child, without paying, taking responsibility for his laziness, growing and changing.

Lin's husband cheated her, but she chose to forgive and they continued their marriage. But Lin will get more and more angry because of some trivial things. Her husband retorted a little, and she angrily accused: you have done something sorry for me, and you have the face to ask me. I can forgive you for being very tolerant!

When they are together, there always seems to be a dark cloud.

There is a lingering resentment in Lin's heart, which may erupt at any time. All unhappiness will lead to accusations. I always forget to mend the knife in the end. You betrayed me! The subtext is: I am a victim, and nothing you can do can eliminate my dissatisfaction, so I can always complain about your mistakes with confidence. In this relationship, no matter what you do, you can't change your status as a sinner, but I can do whatever I want with you, because I am a victim and I don't need to face my problems.

This is an unbalanced relationship. Men may break their jars for a long time, and women may become more and more dissatisfied. Of course, the problem of marriage repair requires great wisdom. If you decide to forgive, you need to vent your resentment and ask for an explanation. Otherwise, mutual compromise is just torture to each other.

Hate, like an energy, will not disappear, either to yourself or to others.

It doesn't mean that when a person is very bad to you, we just submit to humiliation and don't resent it. But in the face of unreasonable treatment, when arguments and efforts still cannot be changed, choose to seek your own strength. After all, there are always some people who have no bottom line of morality and principle. If we want to hinder ourselves because we can't let go of our resentment against them, we will lose more.

I read in an article that nelson mandela, a South African hero who led the anti-apartheid struggle, was imprisoned and tortured in Rhode Island for 27 years. At his inauguration ceremony, he respectfully paid tribute to the three guards who had imprisoned him, which made all the guests present and even the whole world quiet. He said: When I walked out of my cell and walked through the prison gate leading to freedom, I knew that if I couldn't leave my sadness and resentment behind, I would still be in prison.

If you really can't let go of the feeling of hate, it won't disappear out of thin air, but it will grow in your heart, either attacking yourself or attacking people around you. Like a depressed volcano, restless.

In the end, it is just to turn yourself and others' lives into victims of hatred.

The scourge of being born into a family

We know that most of a person's problems are caused by his early family background. Parenting problems, early trauma and separation, family environment problems. Traumatic psychologists believe that children have formed a lifelong interpersonal relationship model and sense of security through interaction with caregivers (parents) before they begin to speak and acquire language and thinking skills. It can be seen that parental rearing patterns and family environment have great influence on children.

Many people find their own problems: lack of love, insecurity and bad intimacy, all of which are parents' problems, and then they begin to resent and blame their parents. Then I regarded myself as a victim and rightfully turned a deaf ear to all kinds of problems. Anyway, it's not my fault, it's all about my parents' early upbringing. I don't have to be responsible for it, and I don't have to make changes, that's all. I have no choice.

Is it easy to put the problem on others? Being a victim can make you feel better, but it's just a kind of self-deception, because it's just a reason for you to refuse to grow and change.

We can't change other people's attitudes towards you, our origins and parents, and the fact that others will always hurt your external environment, but that doesn't mean you can be depressed and give up on yourself. Remember, we are capable of making changes at any time.

If you hate only one person, do you need a reason to hate one person?

Sometimes I also hope that after waking up, I will go back to the most primitive and loving time, without offensive harm and boredom. But the reality is often more cruel than imagined. Some things cannot be changed, and some scars cannot be healed. Every road in life can't be taken again.

I really care too much about someone, and my heart really hurts. Once I put my feelings on him, I really can't extricate myself and can't find the way behind.

Later, I found out that the distance between us is that you don't look for me, and I don't look for you that far.

Let go, just hide your love in your heart. I only hope that the person I love the most can be happy. Although there will be regrets, that kind of happiness has nothing to do with me. However, no matter where I am, I will definitely appear under your call. I really can't let go, I can't let go, even if it hurts deeply, I can't let go.

There is a kind of love called letting go, but it is not really letting go, but always in my heart. I hope you are happy. When you need me, I will be by your side. When we are not together, I will miss you silently and love you forever!

What should come will come, and what should go will not stay. May you be well and everyone be well.

Obviously, two people have each other in their hearts, but they have to let go for various reasons. This may be a kind of love called letting go, not really letting go.

It is said that people who are destined to be together, no matter how many times they circle, will come back to each other. As long as the ending is comedy and the process is crying, happiness will come later. As long as it is true, it is not important to be together in the end. I want to be the person you want to see and say goodbye to most.

When love is a thing of the past, what can you do if you don't let go? When we can't go back, why not let go, give you a freedom and give yourself a beautiful past. Goodbye, maybe never again.

No one can tell what is missing, but it exists. The more people who really love each other, the more they miss each other; The busier you are, the more disturbing your thoughts are; The more free I am, the less quiet I can be. Missing someone is actually loving someone, feeling irritable, but longing for happiness and beauty.

It is better to forget each other than to care about them. I looked at you and didn't forget you. I will look at you all my life and bless you.

Except for life and death, the rest are small things. Dry your tears, smile and keep trying.

There is a kind of love called letting go, but I will never let go in my heart. It's very cold. Take care of yourself.

Life is a long confrontation, some people laugh at the beginning, and some people win at last. Fate doesn't care for anyone, it depends on how long you can chase and how long you persist.

Delete the words line by line, and finally drill a well and send it to you. It doesn't matter, not all emotions should be told to you. For example, I am unhappy, for example, I miss you so much.

The most wonderful things in the world are to love and be loved, and to give to each other.

I think of you when I see this title. Thank you for letting go, but not for not letting go. You always care about me, but you just don't bother me!

Really, it hurts to watch you go away Unfortunately, I love it so much that I have to let it go. Falling in love with someone you shouldn't love is the most painful thing. Only by letting go can you find your true love!

I'm not afraid to be apart from you for a while. If a beautiful love needs to go through layers of tests and make a big circle before meeting me again, I will wait, as long as it is you in the end, I will be willing.

Slowly, everyone will understand that not being with the person you like is actually the normal state of life.

Speaking of hating someone.

I hate you. Honey, you ruined everything for me. ※。

I still love you, but I never want to have you again. I will try my best to hate you, hate you, and even do some excessive things to make you hate me and hate me, and let you remember me forever in your life. That's enough.

Third, love? More experience, do you like it? There will be fewer people.

Fourth, scoff at love, you'd better keep it to yourself. I don't need it

The first time I saw you, I had a feeling of deja vu, and later I realized it was love.

6. Be yourself to those who are normal.

Seven, one sentence gives me hope, and the other sentence pushes me to hell.

Eight, it turns out that when you hate someone to the extreme, it is love, because when you hate someone, you will think of him every day. I am the sword of the special forces.

Don't judge my field with your vague impression. Let's compare with yours or mine. I have begun to hate you with my actions, and I really don't want to see you again. I suggest you take your seat as soon as possible. I don't care so much about you in my circle of friends, which is silly.

Ten, if you have experienced so many difficulties and obstacles, but still can't change even one answer, turn around once, then I will leave, I will hate you, I think I will never forgive you again. . .

Looking for the true meaning of love in the mottled traces, I found myself singing a solo on a huge stage.

When you hate a person, he is not a person in your eyes, but an animal. People will only kill each other if they regard each other as wild animals. Such is the case with war.

Thirteen, how long is love? How long will hatred last? Have you ever tried the taste of loving someone? Have you ever tried to hate someone again? In this life, you failed me If I can, I will meet you in the next life, torture you and live forever.

Fourteen, thinking about happiness? You, watching the pain? Myself.

Fifteen, cheeks in the warm sunshine, a little more blushing, adding a caress.

Sixteen, with the love of youth, what is left.

Seventeen, the earth without me, also won't stop turning, just like you left me, life must be no different.

Eighteen, why can hurt so far, and comfort must be around?

You know, the cruelest sentence is not that I'm sorry, nor that I hate you, but that we can never go back. This is a simple sentence, to keep two people who were close to each other at a distance. People who have never experienced it will never understand what kind of pain it is.

Twenty, love, come and go, but three words, I love you, I hate you, I am sorry.

I think the saddest thing in life is not that I never saw it, but that I met it, got it and was taken away.

Twenty-two, hate a person because you love too much, so you can't stand being hurt.

Twenty-three, what? What is the heart? Words? What is the salary? Harm/? .

Twenty-four, it is said that it is warm spring, but why can't you feel a trace of warmth?

Twenty-five, if you hate a song, cycle the single to don't want to listen. If you hate a food, eat it every day until you don't want to eat any more. If you hate someone, say his name every day until you stop thinking about you. So, say goodbye.

Twenty-six, love is a meeting, you can't wait, you can't prepare.

Twenty-seven Him? Just you? Does he happen to be? near