Parents should never follow their children's mistakes.

Parents should never follow their children's mistakes.

Wrong method

He doesn't get up, you urge him to get up.

If he doesn't tidy the room, you call him lazy.

If he doesn't study hard, just stare at him.

Even if he walks, you should remind him to stand up straight.

Is that what you did?

The result of

If you always follow your child's mistakes, you are actually like a fireman. Where there is a fire, you should put it out. As a result, you will find yourself more and more tired and your children will have more and more problems.

First, let children have a sense of ability.

Tell your child, "I find you can get up on time, son." "Son, I find that you are a neat person." You see, instead of rushing you, you started to do your homework on your own initiative. When you do housework, you are more careful than your mother.

Second, let children have a sense of autonomy.

Tell the child: "Son, I listen to you, and you can do it yourself." Maybe sometimes, I don't approve of your behavior, but remember, mom and dad love you forever. If you need help, please feel free to tell your parents.

Third, let children have a sense of value

Tell the child, "son, when you are reading, ask your mother for an idea." I want to be like you this month. I want to read at least one book. " "Son, you get up on time these days. My mother is so relaxed. I plan to use this time to exercise for half an hour in the future. "

It is to let children discover their own behavior, which can inspire parents and help them!