What is the experience of not finding a job?

first of all, I want to say that there are no jobs that I can't find, only jobs that are suitable.

it's still very touching to see this problem. I have been working for almost 9 years. When I first left the society, I was really hit by a wall and suffered a lot of setbacks. I really felt that it was very difficult to find a job. Let's talk about my past experience.

I didn't have any special skills at first. Later, my brother-in-law found me a restaurant in Dongjing Town, Songjiang. I used to be a person who didn't leave the kitchen at home. I went to help the kitchen at the bottom, but I couldn't tell the ingredients clearly. One day, a chef asked me to take cinnamon. I didn't know him, and no one told me when I asked him. I was supercilious by the chef, and when I went to serve it, he wouldn't let me.

I was supercilious. At noon, when they were resting, I squatted on the ground and rummaged through the cupboard. I was familiar with the ingredients and all kinds of dishes. The chef saw me and asked me what my name was and what I was doing. After I told him the truth, the chef asked me to get attendance (later I learned that a group of partners who were more advanced than me had not checked in, and I was unexpectedly qualified to stay in this hotel).

Later, because of some things, I clearly knew that the profession of chef was not suitable for me, so I decided to quit. Although I walked simply, I was full of fear for the future.

Then I did a similar "work" in a Bainaohui in Shanghai, which is actually not a job, because there is no basic salary guarantee. After you take the guests to a certain business, you go to the business to get the commission. After working for a few days, I found that it was not a long-term solution.

In this way, the two jobs I did in Shanghai were very short, and the cross-border was so great that I didn't know what I was going to do, and my young heart was confused.

Later, as the Chinese New Year approached, I went back to my hometown for a period of time and decided to study computer. I was interested in this since I was a child. At that time, I enrolled in a computer specialized school in the provincial capital city. I enrolled in a one-year academic system (computer science and technology), and the tuition fee was more than 18 thousand, which was also borrowed by my family.

I clearly know that my starting point is low, so I study hard and practice hard, so I have developed a pair of "mouse hands", which is something like this (the picture was taken 8 years ago):

During this year, I listened to the courses that others learned in the second year. Others sit and listen, while I stand and listen; Others are listening in the classroom, and I am listening outside the classroom ...

When the semester is finished, I will be faced with finding a job. Massive application of resumes, because there is no substantive work experience, is also quite frustrated.

I went to Nanjing and Guangzhou successively, all by myself, a stranger, and set off with a few hundred dollars from my family. Especially when I was in Guangzhou, it was very rough. I ran from Guangzhou to Panyu, and I was cheated of some money at the railway station, and I didn't have a place to sleep. At that time, when it was close to zero, I squatted in a corner of Guangzhou Railway Station, and was later driven away by patrol personnel. I squatted there with many people who came out to work, which might affect the city appearance.

then I ran to a square outside the railway station and stayed for a few hours. The weather was not good, then.

I just sat on this step for hours.

there's no room for me in the traffic.

Compared with us at that time, young people nowadays are really not suffering.

Now that you have 6 yuan with you, dare you go to Guangzhou without friends?

I believe that it will only be temporary if we can't find a job. My thought when we can't find a job is this:

Difficulties will really make us grow up and be strong. Life is like this. Once your feet step into the comfortable swamp, it is not so easy to pull them out. Come on.

I used to work in a printing factory in Shanghai for five years. Because I had been working for a long time, I felt boring and had no good development prospects, so I resolutely resigned. On the day I resigned, I felt very relaxed, so I played in Shanghai for a few days and wanted to change to a new working environment, so I began to look for a job.

I'm above 58 city. There are also people who have already submitted resumes on the website. Of course, some factories or enterprises called me for an interview. I also went to the interview and found that I was not satisfied with the factory or the salary, or the salary was too low, or my ability could not meet the requirements of the factory, so I chose to give up. I was not willing to work as a general worker in the factory, so I kept looking for a job and didn't find a suitable job for about a month. There is little money left on me, and the rent is about to expire. At that time, I felt that people were about to collapse. Suddenly I felt myself, desperate, lost, helpless and sad, and I felt like a kitten left on the street. At that time, sleeping at night was not stable.

In order to find a job as soon as possible, I chose to work as a general worker in a factory, at least to ensure that I didn't live on the street. Because I couldn't pay the rent, the landlord had asked me to check out, and I had no place to live. So I have been working in that factory for more than a year, and I have been looking for a suitable opportunity to choose to quit, while looking for a job, while going to work. I was invited to an interview in a company. Because of my previous work experience, I successfully passed the interview, so I started my own job again, thinking of working for a few years first, then changing careers when I have the opportunity, and choosing my favorite career. I want to share my experience with you here, mainly because I hope that everyone can, while looking for a job, don't quit in a hurry, and then quit after finding the next job, so that they won't be anxious and flustered in their hearts. Four words can describe my mood at that time.

I graduated from university in 17 years, and then went to Shenzhen to look for a job with a classmate. I only had 1 yuan on me at that time, and the first thing I wanted to do when I arrived in Shenzhen was to find a place to live. Being a stranger in Shenzhen, we don't know which house is more suitable for us. So we just searched for information about the rented house on the market, the same city network. I remember very clearly, that is, there were a lot of strangers' phone numbers in my mobile phone address book at that time, all of which were on the market, and I saw the contact number. At that time, when I called, many phones were empty, and some of them were, uh, numbers from other places. Besides, those people on that phone all spoke in a very, very dragging way. Anyway, the two of us made a lot of phone calls, and finally found someone who felt a little more reliable, and then went there to see the house. The address is over there in Longhua New District.

because it was summer when we went to look for it, and it was very hot. At that time, Shenzhen. So we just rented a house with air conditioning. Then when we got there, we found that there were all, uh, old houses and then converted them into that one-room suite. The one inside. It's all there is, but it's very small. The sound insulation is very bad. Moreover, he has to pay the rent for three months, and then it seems to be more than 5 per month. We just wanted to find a job in Shenzhen and then live there. Well, if we rent a house, we should live there for a long time, so we decided to live there.

once the place to live was settled, we began to look for jobs. At the beginning, the two of us went together, that is, we went to that company for an interview. When we went to the interview, anyway, that is to say, let us go back and wait for news. In our previous interviews, I basically didn't receive any news about me going, and then my classmate did receive an invitation from a company to go for a second interview. But he said he didn't want to go to that company again, so he didn't go there. In the next few days, we took a few days off and slept in that rented house for a few days. I can't say I'm sleeping, just posting some resumes on that internet or something. Then there are all kinds of calls. We went to Shenzhen for about seven days. My classmate, he received a phone interview invitation and then he went that day. When he came back in the evening, he told me that he had passed the interview, but his place of work was not in Shenzhen but in Zhuhai. I was very happy for him. Then he explained to me, the rent, and the things that followed, that is, I was looking for a job here in Shenzhen alone.

The next day, he packed his things and went to Zhuhai alone. After my classmate left, I just felt a little bad at that time. The next day, I didn't wait in the rented room. I will look for it from company to company according to the address information on their website. Basically, as long as it is in that industry, I have been to all those who have posted information on the Internet and have addresses in Shenzhen. Every company either declined or told me to go back and wait for news. I just waited in Shenzhen, and then stayed for almost a month, but still no company wanted me. One of the companies is. There is the person in charge of a company in the back. He told me directly that it is very easy to find a job in Shenzhen to find a job in film and television. Because my professional level is not high, and my image temperament is not in line with this industry. The only thing I can do is to enrich my own connotation, read more books, accumulate more cultural connotations in film and television, and develop in the direction of being a director. He also asked me at that time, what is new media and then what is self-media? I had no idea at that time. At that time, I was disheartened by the problem of finding a job, so I didn't take his words to heart. I regret it now.

I've been looking for a job in Shenzhen for about a month, but I can't hold on any longer. Then my family also knew my situation and told me to go back. Then I ended my one-month job-hunting experience in Shenzhen.

finally, I want to say. In fact, God is fair to most people. When the opportunity came, some people seized it, so he succeeded, while others missed it, so he still failed. Why can't he seize the opportunity? Because he is not ready. I was also the one who wasn't ready. But it is not too late to know. This is my experience. Are you like me?

if you don't have a job, your purse will shrink greatly. I am not willing to spend money on anything, I can't buy clothes, and I am not willing to eat. Because there is no job, no income, and nothing to eat. Remind everyone: impulsiveness is the devil, so be careful when resigning!

I have a friend whose girlfriend is cheating on me. When he learned the truth, he felt embarrassed that three people were in a company and resigned voluntarily. I think that love is frustrated and the casino is proud. I realized at once that the job is not generally hard to find. After more than two months, the job is still not settled. As long as there is an interview, I will go regardless of the wind, rain or scorching sun, and I will be frustrated again and again. Sometimes I have to spend dozens of dollars on the bus every day, and I have to reverse in the middle. In order to save money, take the bus to the nearest interview place and walk when you come back. Once, in order to save money in 2 yuan, it took me more than 2 hours to walk back from the interview place to my place of residence, and my back ached and my legs ached. Without income, savings are getting less and less, so we have to save money from our mouths. When we are miserable, we can eat a steamed bread in half for one day. I can't go down without eating steamed bread. Fortunately, I have boiled water to drink.

as for me, sometimes I don't have a job. The longest period of time is almost one year before the work is stable. In order to survive and find an ideal job, I only cook porridge and vegetables every day, buy a cabbage for one day, and cook soup with only one cabbage leaf for each meal. After this, I don't quit easily now!

In short, if you are not a rich second generation and have no sideline, don't quit.

finally, a word of advice to white people in the workplace: it's hard to find a job, so don't change jobs easily.

I will be confused, set my own position and find a job that suits me. Being practical is the most important thing, and everything will be fine.

I graduated in June last year, majoring in design in the university. Because I knew that design was too hard, I also considered changing my job in a new field. I found a job for one month and invested a lot of resumes in recruitment software. I was on the way to interview every day, but the result was unsatisfactory. At that time, I was in the hottest time. There was really no way. I temporarily lived in a friend's house, and my money added up to less than 1. Really. Generally speaking, there is a lot of work, and the difficulty lies in whether it is suitable or not, so come on, little friends who are looking for a job?

I'm looking for a job here in Shenzhen. I graduated from school in May, 18. I didn't know what to do at first, so I joined a sales job in a 4s shop with my classmates. Later, I found that I couldn't do sales, so I wanted to quit, but the department manager wouldn't let me go and transferred me to be a vehicle manager. I kept doing it when I found that the salary was ok, and there was no pressure. Until November, because the general manager thought that I was too young to do this job and it was too dangerous to be worthy, he found an uncle to take my position and transferred me back to sales. Because he knew that his sales level was not good, he resigned and left. Later, my sister went to Shenzhen to look for a job because she was in Shenzhen. Up to now, I have voted for countless resumes and interviewed countless companies, but I can't find anything I can do. Last night, it was really close to collapse. I've been annoyed that I'm so useless and worthless. Later, I think it's also a kind of exercise, so I'm relieved. There will be an interview tomorrow morning. It takes two and a half hours from where I live. Although it's a little far away, it doesn't matter. I feel a little resistant to going to work because I've been abandoned for too long. Now I just want to work quickly to enrich myself. I believe tomorrow's days will be better and the trough will always pass. Come on! Work hard! Fight!

Hello, I'm Muyiyang.

what does it feel like to be unable to find a job?

To tell you the truth, I have had such an experience. Because of my personality, I have always been very introverted. At that time, the internet was not as developed as it is now. There was no such thing as surfing the Internet to find information. Even when I made a phone call, I used a public telephone.

After I was laid off from the factory, I stayed at home. During this period, my parents and relatives helped me to find a job, but I didn't have a degree, and I was not good-looking and confident. I didn't seem to be wanted anywhere except to work as a waiter in a small restaurant.

But the waiter is not that kind of person. I'm that kind of person who only works and doesn't talk. I remember that time when the water was cut off in the restaurant, I went to another place to pick up two buckets of water, and cleaned all the dishes and chopsticks in my area. Just as I was about to sit down and have a rest, water came, and then other waiters told the boss that I was too dirty and didn't do anything, so I hid there to enjoy my leisure.

I resigned in a flash, and my mother slapped me several times because of this.

Then I stayed at home all the time, having no money, and didn't want to do anything. At that time, the whole person was very sad and ashamed. I didn't dare to look up when I went out to make soy sauce, for fear that others would see the feeling of this waste from my face.

I actually wake up early every morning, but what do I do after I get up? I don't know, I continued to lie down until my mother started cursing violently, got up and washed helplessly, and psychologically delayed time, in order not to be surrounded by boredom so quickly.

I don't eat breakfast, but I eat less lunch. When the whole family comes back for dinner, my parents buy some changed dishes. Some of them are greedy but dare not eat, because chopsticks are caught in the past, and my mother's sentence of mixing and waiting for death comes out.

Of course, there are also parents who are willing to let their children get old. This is the case with a colleague of mine who is in his fifties.