The sadness of marrying a woman far away: I am happy to go back to my hometown for the New Year and find myself "marginalized" by my family. What should I do?

Then find an excuse to leave. Now that it has been marginalized, there is no point in staying there. Next time you go, you'd better bring a gift and leave in a few days, which is good for everyone.

First, find an excuse to leave and make everyone feel better. You have obvious feelings, so you might as well find an excuse to leave. After all, everyone is happy to stay at home or anywhere for a few days, but after staying for a long time, everyone will naturally feel uncomfortable, not to mention that you are married.

Obviously, when you left, Big Brother and Second Brother only stayed symbolically. Only your mother really wants you to stay for the New Year, which means there is no place for you at home, so there is no place for you at home.

So find an excuse to leave quickly, which is good for everyone. After all, if you don't leave, everyone will feel even worse. It's better to offer to leave, which is good for everyone.

Second, when you go next time, bring some gifts to everyone and stay for a few days before you go. That doesn't mean you can't go back later. You can still go back. Stay for a few days and leave. Don't go home empty-handed. It's better to bring small gifts to everyone, which will make you happier.

Besides, you will only stay for a few days. Don't worry, you shouldn't care too much about these things. After all, what you should think is that you will feel better when you go back to see your mother, not them.

Therefore, people who marry far away remember to treat themselves as guests, and their hearts may feel better. Although they don't want to admit this fact, they do, so adjust your mentality so that you won't feel too uncomfortable.

Third, since you choose to marry far away, some things have to be adapted slowly. Many girls feel that the transportation is convenient now when they get married, and it is the same wherever they get married. Actually, it's not. It's really easy for people who are far away from home. From the moment they got married, everyone thought you seldom came back.

Even if we come back, everyone thinks it's okay to stay for two days, but it's really troublesome after a long time. In fact, you can't blame your family, because you have never participated in their lives before, and now they will certainly not get used to it.

Don't feel too bad for those girls who are married far away. After all, some things still need to get used to, because marrying far away means that you really left your hometown. Just go back and have a look once in a while. After all, your parents are getting old quickly.

So don't be too sad in your heart, because girls who marry far away are like this. Just learn to adapt yourself. After all, family ties are still hard to give up. Come back to see relatives once in a while. They will be happy if you are happy, especially your mother. Don't care too much. Parents are happy when they are happy.