Why do men love to ask their girlfriends about their love history?

If this spirit of asking what comes next is used in study or career, he may succeed in his study or career. If it is used in questioning your past, you may feel bored or bored. However, whether you are happy or not, you can't underestimate this matter, you can't prevaricate at will, you should take it seriously and handle it wisely. When a man asks his girlfriend about her past, there are usually the following methods: First, come straight to the point, mostly for men with bold personality, and generally ask about it; Second, beating around the bush, mostly by introverted men, most of whom will not tear their faces and force women to talk about the past; The third is to follow the guidance and find out your love history. Some scheming, insidious and crafty men will avoid the importance and take the initiative to confess their love history as if nothing had happened, and then force you to confess your past. On the surface, they said very lightly: "I won't care about those …", so that you spill beans in a bamboo tube and shake out all the big things. This kind of man will pester you like a snake. After you tell him something, he will follow suit and ask questions, bombarding you one after another. Why do men care so much about women's past? Where does this habit of men come from? It is generally believed that jealousy is a "patent" for women, but in fact, it misjudges or overestimates men. After entering the love relationship, women pay more attention to his present and future, and don't care much about his past. On the contrary, men always haggle over women's past. Men are too possessive. They are not satisfied with their present possession. They hope that today, yesterday and tomorrow will all belong to him. Women all want to be the last woman of men, and men all want to be the first man of women. This is an eternal truth. Therefore, don't think that in the 21st century, the mind has been liberated, men's ideas have been completely changed, and their selfishness has disappeared. Men who have always been self-proclaimed and fashionable still have a virgin complex in their bones. In the novel "Tree of Life" written by Takahashi Shunshi, a famous Japanese writer, there is a barmaid named Yumiko, whom men love very much. Men know that Yumiko used to be close to Zeng Jing. Although Zeng Jing stabbed her, Yumiko never forgets him. One night, the man dreamed that Zeng Jing was hugging Yumiko. After he woke up, he shook Yumiko around him and said in a reproachful tone, You must be very good in bed, right? Say, "he unscrupulous abuse of Yumiko. Yumiko cried out in pain: Zeng Jing only hurt my flesh and blood, but you hurt my body and mind. It tells us a truth: as a man, we should learn to be generous, and being too harsh will inevitably hurt women's feelings.

As a woman, we should also correctly understand this kind of psychology of men. Men care about you and want to know your past, which is to regard you as a future life partner and prepare to hold hands with you in life. A girl once proudly said: My boyfriend is generous and doesn't care about my past at all. In fact, this may not be a good thing. A man doesn't care about his girlfriend's love history. There are two possibilities: First, he really meets an open-minded man and completely accepts a woman regardless of the past, but such a man is trivial. You may meet another kind of man. He doesn't really love you, at least he doesn't intend to spend his life with you, but just wants to have a romantic moment with you. Therefore, a man's questioning of a woman is only selfish. He wants his life partner to be perfect and always belongs to him. Such a man is not a bad man. A man who always asks about his girlfriend's love history is actually a sign of lack of self-confidence and sense of security. Women must understand this, learn to talk hard, know how to be caring and attentive, communicate with her boyfriend more, actively eliminate his unstable factors, be a woman, be more sure and encourage her boyfriend, and make him more confident and open-minded. You should be honest with a man about his questions, and it is best to let him know before marriage.