When dreams are just dreams, will you still stay in first-tier cities?

Lead: First-tier cities have dreams and good jobs, which can create a better life. Share an inspirational article for young people. Welcome to reading.

When your dream just lingers, will you still stay in the first-tier cities?

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Once upon a time, Beishangguang was a place where many young people from other places sought their dreams!

But suddenly one day, you find that things have changed. The house price is high, the population is large, and the traffic is congested. After paying the monthly salary and rent, you have little left; You want to breathe free air, but you find that there is a stench everywhere from the underground sewage pipes in the city; When I am tired, I can't even find someone to cry to in the dead of night in the big city of Nuoda, and my family is far away. The city is very lively and noisy, but the heart is very lonely and confused.

In the past two years, many people who are familiar with me have chosen to leave. I suddenly found out that I fled from Beishangguang. , is indeed a real phenomenon and trend. People don't have to squeeze into first-tier cities to live, and second-tier cities also have their attractions. On the other hand, the first-tier cities such as Beishangguang have developed to a certain stage, with a surge in population, soaring housing prices and traffic congestion. Some people choose to vote with their feet, escape from first-tier cities, return to second-tier or even third-tier cities, and live another life. Although it is mostly helpless, it is not a wise choice.

Those who stay are wonderful and helpless; Return, but always similar. ......

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Tingzi 20 14 graduated from a university in Guangzhou, majoring in law. Because I didn't graduate from a prestigious school, it is not easy to find a good unit. Let's take an examination of civil servants in Guangzhou. The competition is fierce and unusual, and it is more difficult.

Finally, introduced by relatives, she entered an administrative organ and worked as an appointment staff. Here, she does no less work than ordinary civil servants, but her salary is much less than that of civil servants. This is not the most important thing, prompting her to make up her mind to change. It happened between Tingzi and her leader. Her director often makes Tingzi work late on the grounds of work. Once, the director intentionally hinted to Tingzi that if Tingzi followed her, he would have a good time. Looking at this 50-year-old leader with only a few hairs on his head, she felt sick for a while. From that day on, Tingzi made up her mind to change this situation. Tingzi began to study hard and obtained the judicial professional qualification certificate a year later; A year later, she passed the civil service exam in her hometown city by her own efforts and became a formal civil servant. She doesn't have to endure the treatment of "equal pay for equal work" anymore? Yes

A mass of food

Maruko's initial situation is similar to Tingzi's, and he is also a graduate of two colleges in Guangzhou. After graduation, I worked in a private enterprise in Guangzhou, and my husband also worked in Guangzhou. After giving birth to her daughter, when her daughter went to kindergarten, her husband took her back to her hometown in Chaozhou to help manage the family business.

At first, Maruko wanted to take root in Guangzhou. They have bought a small house on loan in the suburbs of Guangzhou. Maruko wants to earn points in various ways, so she still stays in Guangzhou to work. After the points are successfully entered, he will return to his husband's hometown to reunite with them and have a second child. In this way, I kept a residence and my own account in Guangzhou, and also left a back road for myself or my children to come out of first-tier cities in the future. After years of separation, Maruko resigned from her job in Guangzhou and returned to her husband's hometown of Chaozhou.

On one occasion, Maruko came to Guangzhou on business and we had dinner together. He said that living in Chaozhou is very comfortable and working is very easy. Although the salary is not high, the price there is relatively low, and he doesn't feel any pressure in life. When I get home from work every day, the hardworking Chaozhou housewife has cooked delicious meals. She said that grandma hoped that their second child would be a boy. She smiled and said: I will try to have a second child. ? After seeing her go home, people have gained weight and less acne on her face. When she goes back, she will be raised by her husband. Daughters are happier with their mothers around; My wife treats her like her own daughter. "Back in Chaozhou, I feel like I'm back in heaven? Maruko said happily.

Bouboo

Bubu graduated from a key university. In the year of graduation, he was recruited by a large state-owned enterprise in Guangzhou to work in the company. Bubu's hometown is in Guangxi, where he has a childhood boyfriend. Even so, young Bubu felt that he had decided to go to a big city and work in a large state-owned enterprise in Guangzhou, which was mentioned among relatives and friends. How many parents put up with hardships to send their children to college, don't they just hope that their children can find a good job in big cities to honor their ancestors?

Soon after entering the company, Bubu always felt that something was wrong, and the unit leader was a little too concerned about her. On one occasion, the leader asked several colleagues to visit his villa together, and Bubu was among them. When he got home, the leader's son was at home. Later, one of Bubu's colleagues asked Bubu what he thought of the leader's son, and Bubu woke up. Be blind date? Once.

Bob doesn't like the boss's son. Behind her, a colleague with a big sister said that she was stupid. She didn't like being led by the nose under such good conditions, and she didn't know what she was thinking! Actually, Bubu didn't think too much. She just doesn't like that man. She can't marry someone she doesn't like just to live in a villa. Besides, there is her childhood boyfriend in her hometown.

After this incident, Bubu worked as a small secretary in the unit for five years. I have long been a de facto husband-wife relationship with my boyfriend, but maybe they are separated and have never been pregnant. She made an agreement with her boyfriend to register for marriage as soon as she became pregnant.

After working for seven years, Bubu returned to his hometown during the Spring Festival and Golden Week holidays. Bubu went back to work in Guangzhou as usual. A month later, Bubu found herself pregnant. She was so happy that she called her boyfriend at once and went home again. Toyoko got married? ! They finally got married because they had children. Bubu, who was carried away by great joy, didn't think too much about the future. Her philosophy of life is to live every day well. After the child was born and took a few months' maternity leave, Bubu was faced with how to deal with the relationship between taking care of the child and working. The husband is the only child in the family. His parents are in poor health and need to be taken care of. They can't go to Guangzhou to work and live with him. Bubby doesn't want to give up life in a big city. During breastfeeding, children can't leave their mothers to go to work. Helpless, Bubu can only take his daughter and mother in poor health, hire a nanny, return to Guangzhou, and rent a small single room near the company to make do with it.

Because her husband is not around, Bubu has to cope with work, take care of her daughter after work, and deal with disobedient nannies. My mother is often uncomfortable. When her daughter has a fever and a cold, Bubu can only deal with it alone. She has lived like this for half a year, which makes her feel exhausted.

Finally, she couldn't stand it any longer. No matter how dazzling the aura of first-tier cities and state-owned enterprises is, she can't stop the pain of long-term separation between husband and wife. She finally found a state-owned insurance company in her hometown, and her income was not bad. Most importantly, when they encounter difficulties, the family can get together and share the burden.

Guanguan

After graduation, I worked in a state-owned bank in Guangzhou, feeling that the work pressure was too great. All kinds of assessment tasks are directly linked to bonuses, and bonuses are often deducted because I can't finish the tasks. At the same time, in such a big city, not finding a suitable boyfriend also hit her hard. Finally, with the help of her family, she returned to work in a bank in her hometown and felt very warm with her parents.

Hooke

Hu is a boy. I worked in an enterprise in Guangzhou after graduation. He is a salesman. His salary is not high. He has to work overtime all day and is often as tired as a dog. The mother at home is in poor health and says she wants him to go home all day. After working for several years, his mother's health became worse and worse, so he found an opportunity to go back to his hometown and county to be a civil servant, so that he could take care of his mother filial piety.

I used to think that first-tier cities have dreams and good jobs, which can create a better life. But one day, when you find that you just had a dream and there are relatives in the distance, you will turn around and return to peace. Although it may be dull, it is poetic and warm.

Finally, silently bless those young people who are still struggling and persisting in first-tier cities. No matter how you choose, don't lose hope, because dreams are a bright light in your heart.