Some classic philosophies encountered on the road to growth are very reasonable and incisive. Let's talk about making friends.

1. There are many things we don't know how to express. Choosing silence has created misunderstanding and left many regrets. The only advantage is that we grew up here. You just have to go through a lot of these things when you grow up. You want to never grow up. Unfortunately, I can only think about it. Then, bear it silently and grow up slowly.

People say that youth is meeting seven selves. A bright, a sad, a gorgeous, an adventure, a stubborn, a soft, the rest, are growing. On the way of growing up, we have experienced wind and rain, and when we meet thorns, we will submit to humiliation and rebound strongly. Of course, none of us thought that the so-called growth actually came at a price.

We all think that when we grow up, we can be together forever, so we grow up at all costs, but when we are really long enough to say goodbye to our youth, we suddenly find that growing up will only separate us.

I thought that no matter how many times I love, I will always cherish what I once loved, but the fact is that the new love grows on the old love, absorbs nutrients from it, and blooms more brilliantly, while the past withers and becomes a withered body.

Many people say that growing up is cruel. On the contrary, I think growth is the most wonderful thing in the world. There is always hope, never afraid of losing. There are so many gorgeous scenery that you can only feel it when you grow up.

6. If you become more and more indifferent, you think you have grown up, but you haven't. Growing up should actually be gentle, gentle to the whole world. Maturity means accepting a lot of things, letting go, being compassionate, and indifference is boredom and revenge. Maturity is a warm heart, not cooling.

7. When tomorrow becomes today, yesterday, and finally a day that is no longer important in memory, we suddenly find ourselves unconsciously pushed forward by time. This is not the illusion that we are moving forward when we are in a stationary train and staggered with the adjacent trains, but that we are really growing up and becoming another ourselves in this matter.

8. I always like the afternoon sunshine. He made me believe that everything in this world will get better and that fate is generous and beautiful. We will grow up eventually, and grow up quietly with a feeling of no regrets. In the final analysis, growth is a kind of happiness.

9. Everyone should grow up, which is the only way and the unavoidable way. People who don't want to grow up can only be dragged forward by reality, even if they are black and blue and bloody. No one cares whether you are in pain or not, they have their way to go, they are busy; No one can bear it for you, you have to bear it yourself, which is helpless and inevitable.

10. When someone says something that hurts you a lot, it is the moment when you can make the most progress and grow, because what others say is likely to hit a blind spot that you have been afraid to face.

1 1. So if you have misfortune, you have to bear it yourself. Comfort is sometimes stretched. If you are not strong, you have to work hard. If you are not naked and hungry, we have no right to be sad. We can still write happiness for a long time. Growth is bound to be full of pain in life, and it is enough for us to find happiness side by side.

12. After many years, we have all grown up. After lying, accept the deception, get used to perfunctory, forget the oath and let go of everything. The world has punished our naivety and worn away our dreams. But my heart keeps closing, opening bravely and loving all the time. Since you can't get it, let it grow naturally. The sadness of youth is the only garden in life.

14. Some words are suitable for rotting in the heart, while others are painful and suitable for forgetting silently. When you experience it, you grow up and you know it yourself. Many changes, you don't have to say it yourself, others will see it.

Some classics make sense.

First, every woman should live full of energy, both inside and outside. Don't let anything or anyone make you question your beauty, because you are a unique treasure.

Second, the perfection of the love chapter lies in the wonderful and eternal moment.

Third, I believe that love can change a person, which is the benefit of youth and the sorrow of youth. A prodigal son is always a prodigal son. What changes a man may be the love of God or the compassion of Buddha, but it will never be a woman.

4. If some topics on my friend are not touched, every chat will be deliberately bypassed and skipped like a minefield, and finally I will choose to give up this friend. It's not that the other party is bad, but that I don't want to make myself too tired. Friends are used to find fault with each other and fight poison with poison. If you look at each other blindly, the word friend should only be superficial. Liu Tong

One day, friendship and love met. Love asks friendship: Why do you have me in the world? Friendship said with a smile: love can make people cry, and the existence of friendship is to help people dry their tears! Between friends, there is little concern.

Dear, we can only rebuild love in the constant consumption of love.

Seven, there are many things, before you know how to cherish them, they have become old things. There are many people who have become old people before you have time to pay attention.

Eight, the so-called gains and losses of life, in many cases, have no practical significance, but irretrievable or bad, or sad or hateful feelings are brought into it, which can also make people lose their feelings and views on the whole life. This kind of gain and loss caused by mood is more fatal than material gain and loss. Seibu's "Harvard EQ Course"

I will still believe in love, but I won't believe that love can last forever.

10. The real life is to do what you do every day. Don't ask for love and vision that has nothing to do with you at present. Don't dwell on unnecessary emotions and judgments. No delusions, no self-indulgence. Don't hurt, don't be enemies with yourself and others. Don't perform and don't believe in other people's performances.

1 1. Your beauty blooms into warm sunshine in this season, and your smile plays down all the sadness in this season. The rhythm of life turns into a grain of dust in the vicissitudes of life. My hand holds your heart and walks into the pulse of this season.

Twelve, without promises and vows, the heart is so practical and satisfied. I don't need any promises, as long as you can tell me how much you think I have. There is no eternity in the world, and it is my extravagant hope to have my place in a corner of my memory.

Thirteen, the wise man's mouth is hidden in his heart, and the fool's heart is in his mouth.

14. Don't wait for me to change before you say you miss me.

Fifteen, go your own way, why force others to share joys and sorrows with you. Your own pain is in your heart, so why force others to celebrate with you? Life makes me stand on my own feet, and youth gives me the beauty ahead. There are happy songs and happy tears. The result of life is not always sunshine!

Sixteen, memories have swelled into bitterness in countless fermentations. This bitter drop crouches gently behind every long night, awakening the hidden pain and turning it into rain floating in the sky outside! Drip of tears, waves of Yu Ning form a look, flustered, flowing!

17. Happiness tells me that you are still too young.

Even if no one applauds you, take a graceful curtain call and thank yourself for your earnest efforts.

Nineteen, people who don't know how to love themselves are incapable of loving others.

Twenty, there is as much perseverance as there is suffering in the world. Helen Keller

Everyone has many dreams in his life. If one of them keeps bothering you, the rest is just action.

Twenty-two, love is too serious and becomes a stranger.

Twenty-three, the so-called most memorable, is never thought of, but will never forget.

24. Happiness is a struggle, and people who don't want to struggle can't be happy. Paper scraps in the wind.

Some incisive and reasonable classic sentences

1. Nothing in this world happens by accident, and everything happens for a reason.

2. Too many love words make people melodramatic, too many philosophies make people numb, and too many realities make us look sophisticated. Simple, how luxurious.

Time, like a good doctor, can help us to heal the bleeding heart.

Look back once in a while, otherwise you will keep looking and don't know what you have lost.

Have you calculated such an account? Our parents are about sixty or seventy years old now. Let's assume that they can live for 20 years. For me, I can only go home during the Spring Festival every year, which is actually five or six days, but the time I really spend with my parents every day is only two or three hours, five or six days is more than ten hours, and twenty years is more than two hundred hours.

Freedom doesn't mean you can do whatever you want. Freedom means you can't do anything if you don't want to.

7. You are lonely because you want someone to care and don't want to be disturbed too much.

8. Sometimes, we can comfort others with the same words, but we can't convince ourselves. Don't forget to promise what you want to do and where you want to go, no matter how difficult or how far it is. Don't forget your promise to yourself.

No matter how good others are, we should not envy them. Just compare with your past, and you will be happier every day.

10, a flower blooms in one world, and lovesickness lasts for life.

1 1, happiness is having someone who can read you; Warmth means having someone who is willing to accompany you.

12, there are no perfect two people, only two hearts give in to each other.

13, the quality of life lies in the generosity between caring and forgiving.

14, even close friends sometimes go their separate ways. When we are together, we should learn to cherish.

15, sometimes, what you miss is memory, not people.

16, no matter how slow your steps are, as long as you are walking, you will always see progress.

17, silence is a landscape, because the world often needs silence. Silence is not wordless, not humble, it is just a beautiful gesture, it is a profound connotation and the self of life.

18, life needs a calm and peaceful mood, a free heart, a simple and meticulous attitude towards life, and the most free state to interpret the true meaning of life.

19, how can a person understand the vastness after the decision if he has not experienced the pain of paying and working hard?

20. One season is prosperous and the other is cool. A season of vicissitudes, a season of hope.

Very reasonable words, some very reasonable sentences

Very reasonable words:

I can't remember when you stopped venting your negative emotions in front of too many people. There is no doubt that this is a good phenomenon for you who are very emotional, which may mean that you are beginning to really understand what moderation is. There will still be bad moments in life, but I gradually find that the experience and energy gained by digesting them are much stronger than pouring out and complaining. You used to rely on others, but now you believe in time and yourself.

Second, words that hurt people, like water, are irreversible.

Third, some things are not afraid that no one will look at them. As long as you put your heart into it, it will pay off. We will be deceived by what we cling to. We will be hurt by whoever we cling to. So we should learn to let go, look down on everything, don't care, don't care, right or wrong doesn't matter. Whatever you lose, don't lose a good mood. Grasp your heart and make it clean, white and quiet. Letting go does not mean giving up, and persistence does not mean persistence.

Fourth, try to love someone. Pay, not necessarily gain; No pains, no gains. Don't expect miracles

5. Don't be a hedgehog. If you don't make enemies with others, you won't make enemies with others. No one will stay with anyone for a lifetime. Some things don't need to be remembered.

Out of your world, you will feel the explosive tension of life in this change. There are many people who are trapped in their own world all their lives. When life ends, they may suddenly realize that they have never really lived. Some people are really happy for you but are left out by you, and some people inadvertently express their eternal thoughts. The most precious thing in the world is not to lose, but to seize the present happiness.

Seven, know how to listen to other people's advice.

Eight, don't rely too much on people other than yourself, because only you won't give up.

It will be a blessing if we can spend this day safely. How many people today can't see the sun tomorrow, how many people have become disabled today, how many people have lost their freedom today, and how many people have lost their homes today.

Have a dream, even if it is far away.

Eleven, have a clear understanding of the weakness of human nature, but we must believe in sincere love and always have a simple yearning for love.

Be optimistic, be positive, smile more and look in the mirror more.

Thirteen, try to look forward and learn to adapt. Life is short. Life begins with your own tears and ends with others' tears. The middle process is happiness. Don't hate a person you loved, don't ask the reason for breaking up, and don't beg for the possibility of getting back together. Turn around and make yourself happy. That's true.

14. People who don't like it can respond with a silent smile; The person you like, that's casual, because your love will be unstoppable, unstoppable.

Fifteen, believe in Buddhism, believe in cause and effect, in the face of real cause and effect, human strength is negligible.

Some very reasonable sentences:

First, happiness is sometimes really around, learn to be content and enjoy the taste of life. Life needs a little wisdom, otherwise, optimists see opportunities in suffering and pessimists see suffering in opportunities. The same perspective, different angles, you will experience the difference in the world.

Second, don't try to control others and don't ask others to understand you.

Third, patience is good, patience is treasure. I can't bear to think about it once, and fighting for strength is a catastrophe. I can't stand being angry and pestering you all my life, so what's the harm of making people step by step and making a fortune is no trouble.

Fourth, what others say is in your mind, and yours is in your heart.

5. Speak if you have something to say, scold if you are dissatisfied, vent if you have emotions, and pour out if you have love. Our youth will soon pass, so don't be on tenterhooks all day. Although there are billions of people in the world, there are always a few that belong to you. In their hearts, you are the most important. If you want to talk, take it seriously. Being seen, noticed, cared for and missed is life.

6. What customers want is not cheap, what they want is to feel cheap. Don't argue about the price with customers, but discuss the value with them. There are no wrong customers, only poor service. There is no best product, only the most suitable product. There are no unsold goods, only unsold goods. 6. Success is not because of speed, but because of method.

Seven, people's mind, more desire is narrow, less desire is broad.

Eight, it is unfortunate and lucky to be in a desperate situation. If you don't come too late, so be it. Whether it's the pine tree on the top of Mount Tai, the solitary tree in the vast Gobi and endless wasteland, the Populus euphratica in the depths of the desert, or the ancient willow that has landed for thousands of years by the Royal Garden Lake, it is telling a truth: the success or failure of life lies in the struggle against despair! Never give up in the face of despair, this is the indomitable great spirit of mankind!

Nine, there are some things that you can care about, but don't overdo it. Too much will wear your mind and aggravate your steps; Some pain, you can immerse yourself in it, but not for too long, it will lower your morale and lose your direction. Looking down, it will be easy; Look shallow and be comfortable; Looking down, you can be happy; Open-minded, open-minded and mature; Yes, it can be simple.

Ten, read more books, good books.

Eleven, don't forget your roots, at any time, anything.

To truly understand the meaning of impermanence, when you are in pain, you should think that this pain is not eternal, and when you are happy, you should think that this happiness is not eternal.

Thirteen, when a society is completely addicted to fashion, those truly noble and great things gradually fade out of people's sight, and people may even doubt whether those things really existed. If the sky is completely covered with dark clouds for a long time, people will gradually think that those clouds are in the sky. They don't believe that there is a blue and pure sky above the clouds.

Fourteen, know yourself, change yourself, in order to change others.

Fifteen, good people do good deeds, from joy to joy, from Ming to Ming. The wicked do evil, from bitterness to bitterness, from ghost to ghost.

Sixteen, if you can choose, don't end a love with hate.

Seventeen, to learn to be patient and persistent!

Eighteen, make your own decisions. Be prepared to face the consequences. Remind yourself from the beginning that there is no regret medicine in the world.

Nineteen, sometimes you should learn to listen to the opinions of people around you, and more often you won't get hurt.

Twenty, if you are a monk, you have never seen the world.

2 1. Life is a tree full of flowers. Destined to be baptized by fate. Life needs appreciation. Give up the idea of having everything you like. Don't expect you to have a lot. Appreciating a person and a thing with a normal heart is just like appreciating a painting. You will be happy and calm.

Everyone has a certain ideal, which determines the direction of his efforts and judgment. In this sense, I have never regarded ease and happiness as the purpose of life itself-this ethical basis, which I call the ideal of pigsty-Einstein.

Twenty-three, you will find that the last person to accompany you is not the one who has a cold and said that you should have a good rest, but the one who remembers to buy you medicine, not the one who chats with you, but the one who will tell you to waste less time, not the one who likes to make fun of you and poke your sore spot, but the one who really understands your goodness and is willing to tell others. Don't have illusions about commitment, don't expect eternity, and let time filter out those who really love you.

No matter who you are, you have your own limits. Especially trust.

Twenty-five, life has both good times and bad times, and it is impossible to have bad times everywhere; There are peaks and valleys in life, and it is impossible to have valleys everywhere. It is a shallow life to be cocky because of prosperity or peak, and depressed because of adversity or trough. In the face of setbacks, if you just complain and get angry blindly, then you are doomed to be a weak person forever.

26, believe in karma! Believe in reincarnation!

Twenty-seven, life needs a certain amount of wisdom, learn to empathize. The world used to be simple, but we complicated it. People suffer because you don't live the way you like. Most people live according to the requirements of others, deliberately change, and run counter to their own inner thoughts, so they are suffering.