What do you think of the sentence "If you have no money, don't have children, and being born will harm him"?

China people advocate the golden mean. The golden mean doesn't mean that we don't say anything or do anything, but that we can't treat a problem too absolutely. The angle of this question is too absolute. If raising children needs money, it is true. We want to give them good living conditions and a good education, but in fact, what do we really want to give them behind these things? Please think deeply.

We want to give our children good living conditions. In fact, we want them to live a better life and not suffer too much. This is inherit the wind. However, if you can't give your child a good living environment because you don't have money, it will harm him. This is a bit extreme. For example, a family is not so rich, but the husband, wife and children are happy and live a simple and happy life; A family is rich, but parents are busy all day, or parents quarrel as a whole. What kind of atmosphere do you think children will like? Therefore, the measure of a family's happiness is not whether it is rich or not, but the whole magnetic field presented by this family. Life is long, where there is no future?

We want to give our children a good education because we want him to live a happy life, be self-sufficient and even live a life without food and clothing. However, rich families do not necessarily produce excellent children, and the success of any career cannot replace the lack of children's education. For example, Jackie Chan's son and Zhang Guoli's son. Therefore, children are a blank sheet of paper, there are no good children and no bad children, and parents love their children equally. But different family magnetic fields give different energy to children. A good family magnetic field is the best thing for children, not external wealth.

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