How did the marriage break up?

Many marriages are broken up by both families. Oh, your husband's ability is too poor, no matter how little money he earns. You should talk more about him. This man is so useless. Oh, your wife should take care of it, too Why are you so weak as a man? Are these words particularly familiar to you? Has your family ever said such things to you to belittle your other half?

When there are some contradictions between husband and wife, parents, brothers and sisters of both sides like to participate and tell each other what to do, which is often the fuse that leads to divorce, so many times it is not the contradiction between husband and wife that leads to divorce.

This is a big battle between two families. You have to understand that both parents have good intentions, but they really do bad things with good intentions and let their families dominate their marriage, which is indirectly breaking up their families. They try their best to expose your scars without scruple, but in the end it is you two who are hurt.

Because the pain caused by divorce will only be borne by you, and the children do not have a complete family. Who will be in charge of the children's lives? After a real divorce, when you think your family can help you, you will find that they are all hiding. Then I started to scold you. Why are you so impulsive? You should think carefully about the divorce! Your child is too hasty. At the beginning, we said two words, who made you really divorced.

By that time, you will really be ineffective every day. You should remember that all couples, whether parents or your own parents, are strangers in front of them. First, you should be independent. Second, the relationship between husband and wife is always the first, and parents and relatives are always the topic of discussion after marriage.

Don't have any conflicts and disputes with your other half, just go back to your home and complain to your parents and relatives. Don't think that your other half is an outsider, your family is our own. This is a big mistake. When you lose your marriage and financial security, your family and relatives are not really responsible for you and your children. They are the real outsiders in the relationship. I hope you can wake up soon.