Talking about the Song of Cabbage in Love with Pig

Yuan, I'm glad to meet you at this time of my life. At some point, I felt as if everything was right at the right time.

However, the marriage of two strangers will inevitably go through the process of getting to know each other, knowing each other, falling in love, and the essence of the result is to start from the face value and be loyal to talent. For me, I don't think I have any talent, but I really want to tell you my heart. The past few days add up to a long paragraph. If I tell you, I'm afraid I'm not fluent, so I let you know in this way and plan to send it to you at the next meeting. As for the topic, I haven't come up with a suitable one after thinking for a long time, so I'll make do. But in a sense, you can regard it as a love letter.

There are surprises everywhere in life, whether it is love or marriage, it will continue as always.

In the future, in addition to your parents' kindness to you, there will be one more me if you like.

I suddenly don't know where to start when I write here, so write slowly, starting from the process of blind date these days, let nature take its course and let you feel it (most of the time I just judge by empathy, right? I follow this line of thinking).

Mental journey:

18 May, at 8: 30 in the evening, I received a message from my mother about you, "girl, 97-year-old cow, college student, height 1.66, weight 108 kg, kindergarten teacher". When I saw this message, I suddenly felt that you were like a person in the sky looking for it according to my idea in the vast sea. At this time, your information aroused my 100% interest, but my enthusiasm was only 50%, because of my concerns. According to my guess, if it is introduced by a relative matchmaker and not voluntary, then the success rate is very low. Then you added your WeChat, we talked a few words, and then you said that the chat was terminated after the break. At that time, my subconscious thought that your will might be hopeless this time, but I didn't want to think it was true, so I held the idea that you really needed a rest to face the next contact, and this idea all came from your information, which is exactly what I thought.

On the morning of May 19, I plan to take a half-day break this afternoon to get a haircut and then change my glasses. I think since I introduced it and liked it very much, I should face it in the best state. After all, anything is possible.

/kloc-On the afternoon of May, 0/9, I ate wool in the company canteen at noon on the principle of energy saving, and sent you an invitation message when I left the company. Until I got home, I went to the barber shop for a haircut without replying. I was resigned to my fate and prepared to get a haircut first. Then, during the haircut, the mobile phone rang, feeling that it should be your reply.

After I cut my hair and saw that you agreed, I felt that my lunch break was right and I was ready to dress myself up. I turned around and went to the optical shop next door to get glasses. In addition, I went to the bath center outside this afternoon to take a bath, steamed and washed it, because I felt that any clothes could not achieve the best effect I wanted. Then I went to Yiran to buy a pair of summer sports shoes and a T-shirt. Then I went to the car wash and got off. In the process of washing the car, I also called a colleague who is extremely experienced in blind date but has been single and asked where to go for the first time. After talking for 20 minutes, I still didn't get to the best place to eat. I thought about it and decided to set the place for eating in Yiran, which I am familiar with. As for what to eat specifically, I told you. It's past five o'clock when I get home after all this, and then I wait for your news while reading the talk show book I just started reading.

On the evening of May 19, I picked you up as planned and went to Yiran. I walked around the restaurant, and you didn't say where to go. I think you may be embarrassed to say where to go when we meet for the first time, just as I am worried about your taste, and you will consider my taste and make a bad decision, so I found a shop that I have been to once, and it felt ok, but after the meal came, I felt terrible.

During the dinner conversation, my impression of you deepened a little. Suppose I have a portrait of the other half in my heart, and the peak similarity between you and it is 100, then according to the information I have now, the peak similarity between you and it is 100. Because of this, I became cautious for a while, and I was very afraid that I accidentally offended you, which led to the loss of this hard-won fate and missed you (which will be reflected in my behavior later). At the same time, I found that you used lipstick, and I feel that you have your own wishes on this blind date. In the process of eating, I found that you eat very little, and you feel a little unnatural when you eat and talk. I take it for granted that you may not be used to or like eating out, or that people with oral ulcers are inconvenient to eat, and I think of what you said when you got on the bus, "I wish I had eaten and wandered around", and then I suggested that if I came out later, I would come out after eating. After you agree, I think my idea is correct (but it turns out to be wrong).

After dinner, I thought you would rest around 9 o'clock. It was just after 8 o'clock, and there was still some time before 9 o'clock. Then I suggested going to the leisure square you mentioned, but when I got to Aite, I glanced at my watch and found it was almost 9 o'clock, so I suggested sending you back directly. At the same time, because the next day is 520, I really hope to ask you out again. I was very excited when you finally agreed to get off the bus. I don't think success is impossible. At least there is a glimmer of hope that you are willing to come out again, not the answer I thought was "I'll talk about it then". This conclusion makes me more cautious. Before going to bed that night, I decided to study and send you a flower or something tomorrow.

On the morning of May 20th, I decided to send you a flower last night, so at about 9: 30 in the morning, I asked my sister if she was free to get a flower. At first, I imagined 99 red roses. I thought about getting someone who looks at the atmosphere and doesn't dig holes.

But I was a little scared when I saw the picture, because the bouquet of 99 red roses was a little too big, and I was afraid that I would give you such a big one when I met you for the second time. First, it is inconvenient to hold it, and second, I am afraid to scare you. So he said it would be nice to change it to a smaller one, the diameter and shoulder width of the bouquet. As a result, he sent a photo of 19 flowers and asked me how it was. I didn't feel very good.

I asked the meaning of each number. After reading it, I finally gave a bouquet plan according to my own idea: "The bouquet diameter is a4 paper length, red rose 1 1, plus four other flowers, there are five varieties in a bouquet, except for red rose, the number of other flowers is unlimited, and they look good in any way", but the last feedback is "no matter how they are matched". Originally, I thought the moral was "a bunch of flowers contains the numbers 1 (love at first sight), 1 1 (single-minded), 4 (commitment and oath) and 5 (no regrets). Among them, red roses are mixed with other flowers to express that there are surprises everywhere in life, not just the love of red roses, but love. At the same time, I also want to give you a big plush toy. What I want to express is that no matter how beautiful the flowers are, they will eventually fade. Only a sincere heart is the truest meaning. " However, in the end, it can't compete with the secular view. Then I sent some pictures of red rose bouquets in the store and asked me which one was good. The results didn't meet my expectations, so I finally decided to buy a bunch of red roses and a plush toy when I watched the movie at night.

At noon on May 20th, when I received your news, my heart suddenly got cold at first. After I clicked on it, I found that I just changed the time. From this, I can judge that you still have a certain wish for the object. At least you don't hate me.

On the evening of May 20th, I went to the clinic because of my limp, and went home to cook, eat and take medicine. After packing, I want to talk to you at 8 o'clock. I don't know what to say. I'm afraid I won't handle anything. I inadvertently offended you and gave you a bad impression. Finally, I thought of asking what kind of movie you want to see tomorrow, hesitating whether to send it or not, and giving up for fear of affecting the rest. But I can't sleep. I don't think it's a good idea to see a movie for the second time. Watching movies alone can't communicate, and there is no substantial progress for the people. At the same time, I may be busy at work in the next few days, and I may not be able to contact you often. I'm afraid you'll miss it, so I decided not to go to the movies tomorrow, so I'll find a place to take a walk and chat and see if I can confirm the relationship. As for the choice of location, I want to find a bright place with many people so as not to leave any bad impression. It should be good to think of people's park.

On the morning of May 2 1, I woke up thinking about how to make sure that this relationship won't make a bad impression on you. As a result, I forgot to make an appointment with JD.COM to pick up the returned goods today. I've been busy in the company. I want to finish my work early and take a day off on Sunday to see if I can ask you out to play. I didn't think about returning the goods until 1 1: 30. Fortunately, it was remedied in time. Looking back, I was a little absent-minded these two days, reading something, no matter what I did. The fundamental reason is that I know you in my daily life these days. This is still an uncertain factor, but I want to be the definitive factor.

On the evening of May 2 1, I was surprised to see the People's Park in dark for the first time after receiving you. I didn't expect it to be different from what I imagined, and then I looked at the place where there was no parking on the roadside, so I naturally changed places for a walk. Fortunately, there is a parking space in the leisure square. Just like your appearance, I feel that everything is as dreamy as arranged. I don't know what I said on the bench, and then you are willing to look around as your girlfriend. I was really surprised and confirmed it again. After getting the same answer, I was very happy and felt an invisible pressure dissipate instantly. I wanted to take your hand back, but because I was too cautious and afraid of leaving a bad impression on you, I lost this fate and missed you. I dare not have any physical contact. At the same time, considering that coming out at night may affect the next day's work, I propose not to come out from Monday to Friday, and make an appointment with Saturday and Sunday if I want to come out. I was very excited when I sent you home.

On the morning of May 22nd, I went out for a walk. Although I didn't see the flowers I wanted, I didn't walk together. But today, I obviously feel emotionally relaxed and our communication becomes smoother and more natural. Regarding the content of communication, I think it is necessary to say some fragments of my experience for you to think about, because it is an experience for me and may be just a story for others.

On the evening of May 22nd, because of the communication in the morning, I guessed that the information I said might make you reconsider whether you would like to keep in touch with me, because in the eyes of most people, education is the only thing that proves cleverness. If you think further, you will naturally choose someone with high education in order to make the next generation smarter and wiser, but I don't have this hardware condition. For this reason, I'm actually prepared to accept that we are not suitable. So the phone went silent, and I started reading, because there was only a quarter left, and I planned to read it all at once.

This concern disappeared after I finished reading the book, and when I saw you contact me after you came home, this concern disappeared completely. So now I've decided to write down our mental journey from getting to know each other to determining our relationship. It will be an interesting memory if we get married.