Is it worthwhile for children to give up their jobs and study with them full-time?

In order to accompany her children wholeheartedly, she gave up her high-paying job. From elementary school to junior high school, she studies at home whatever the child learns at school during the day, and she will do the questions the child wants to do in advance. Every night and weekend, my mother and son began to sit at the same table and study together for eight years ... Recently, a media report in Hubei Province "The story of accompanying the doe" caused widespread concern and heated discussion among netizens. There are more and more "accompanying mothers" now. Give up your job and be with them full time, right? Is it worth it? What effect will it have on children? Netizens had a tit-for-tat debate.

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Raising children is also a career. If children are not well educated, life is a failure.

Red Net User: I have such friends around me. My child quit his job at the age of one and started a "full-time tutor". Parents are the first teachers for children to grow up, and it is also a happy way of life to follow their children's learning and life trajectory. Everyone's choice is different, which is understandable.

Sina netizen: I think we should spend more time with our children when they are young. On the one hand, it can help them study, on the other hand, they can always understand their ideas and establish a good parent-child relationship. What's the point of making money if children's education is not good?

Tencent netizen: "accompanying mom" is commendable! Nowadays, many parents seldom accompany their children and always ignore their children's growth on the grounds of busy work, which is simply dereliction of duty!

Red Net Netizen: No matter how successful a person's career is, if he doesn't educate his children well, his life will also fail. Nowadays, many parents push their children to school, various training courses and special classes, but they refuse to spend more time with their children. This is also a kind of sadness!

Sohu's netizens. Com: Some people choose to work hard for their careers, while others choose to train the next generation wholeheartedly, but they just choose differently. As long as you think it's right, you can have fun from it, and that's a good life.

Tencent's netizens. Com: When I was a child, because my father had more free time, he often accompanied me to study, so he got the best grades. Personally, I feel how lucky I am to have a knowledgeable father to guide me! Not only study, but also life, feelings and other aspects!

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Giving up on yourself is irresponsible to yourself and is not conducive to the independent growth of children.

Jingchu Net Netizen: If the growth of children becomes the whole life of parents, I think it is the sorrow of parents. Parents are children's first teachers, and they should be role models for children to learn, not children's servants, excellent children! Everyone should have their own independent life, not be attached to anyone.

Red Net User: It's silly to resign and study with your children! I am also a mother. I think it is better to teach people to fish than to teach them to fish. The most important thing is to teach children how to live and how to face difficulties. Giving up yourself and fulfilling your child is irresponsible to yourself and will also put a lot of pressure on your child!

Sina netizen: children who grow up like this don't know what independence is. How long can his parents stay with him? Every child needs his parents to accompany him, so how can parents live in the world?

Tencent netizen: I am very opposed to this practice. Mothers will gradually lose themselves, and children will not grow up well. If he depends on his mother because of her company, how can he face study and life alone in the future? Everyone does his own thing well at different stages of life, which is success.

Tencent netizen: When I was at school, I was most annoyed that my parents stared at me. Besides, what if I accompany you every day? At most, it is to help parents understand their children's learning progress. Parents only need a little management for children who can really read. I can't understand this kind of full-time tutoring.