How to answer others that you look like a star with high emotional intelligence?

Generally speaking, it can only be said that good-looking people are always the same.

Ways to improve emotional intelligence:

1, it is good for everyone to learn to draw a proper psychological boundary. You may think it's a good thing to be unclear with others, so that everyone can get along as they please, without having to bargain fiercely with each other. This sounds reasonable, but its disadvantage is that others often hurt your feelings without your knowledge.

In fact, if you look around carefully, it is not difficult to find that people with poor marginal ability are prone to morbid phobia. They will not confront the invaders, but prefer to talk to a third party. If we are the one who violates other people's psychological boundaries, we will feel like cold-blooded idiots when we find out the truth.

2. When you want to complain, stop and ask yourself, "Should I continue to endure this seemingly unchangeable situation or change it?" We call endless complaints nagging. Complaining about consuming energy has no result, is useless to the problem and rarely makes us feel better.

Almost everyone finds that if we confide our dissatisfaction to a sympathetic third party, we will feel better and he will be angry with them. Someone says to you, "poor baby." This is a great comfort to you. Your stress seems to have eased, and you can face the original situation again, although things have not changed.

3. Find a vivid role model in life. For example, your friend is energetic, young, generous, intelligent and interesting. She is a company consultant, writes a regular column for a city newspaper, and has a handsome husband and lovely daughter.

Try another completely different way from time to time, you will broaden your horizons and improve your emotional intelligence. Are you an extrovert or an introvert, and do you prefer being alone or being with a few close friends? Do you like to plan what to do in advance every day, or do something unplanned?

Everyone has their own preferences, and if they can choose, everyone will choose their preferred way. However, breaking the routine and trying the opposite action will be more helpful to our growth.

Being a parent, dealing with difficult people from time to time and trying another way of life can exercise your interpersonal skills and improve your emotional intelligence.