Drink poison and talk about it.

One of the most powerful explanations I have ever heard about unforgivability is that it is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.

One of the most powerful explanations I have heard about not forgiving is that it is like drinking poison and hoping that another person will die.

Hatred is like a poison, it is injected into your blood vessels before it is injected into your enemies. This is throwing cow dung at others: you get your hands dirty first, and then get other people's hands dirty.

Hatred is like poison, it is injected into your veins before it is injected into your enemies. This is throwing cow dung at others: dirty your hands first, then dirty others.

Every time we sip unforgivable poison, we add an obstacle to our homemade cage. We have strengthened our imprisonment and isolated ourselves from the healing, salvation and blessings that God has given us. Time and time again, I heard the sound of heartbreak, and felt trapped in the past, and I could never get rid of it. My life was dominated by the tragedy of abuse. This is a painful fact, because they can't-or won't-forgive.

Every time we drink an unforgivable poison, we add an obstacle to the cage we built ourselves. We have strengthened our bondage and separated ourselves from the treatment, redemption and blessing that God has given us. Time and time again, I hear the voice of heartbreak: trapped in the past, I can never get rid of it, and my life is dominated by the tragedy of abuse. This is a painful fact, because they can't-or won't-forgive.

The poison of intolerance constantly judges and condemns those who we will not forgive, thus complicating the problem. But the forged prison is our own. Our judgment, condemnation and refusal to forgive are the raw materials for building our cage.

Unforgettable poison keeps trying and condemning those we don't want to forgive, thus complicating the problem. But the prison was built by ourselves. Our judgment, condemnation and refusal to forgive are all raw materials to build our cage.

The real fact is that even if God strikes that man with lightning and announces his sin loudly in public, it will not change our feelings. We believe that persisting in not forgiving is a punishment for people, and this will not affect them at all. They live a carefree life, but we are getting deeper and deeper, indulging in unforgivable poison. Hating them is our reason to live. This lie tells us that giving up what drives and supports us will leave us with nothing. The lie that unforgivability is the only weapon we have.

In fact, even if God knocks that man down with lightning and announces their sins loudly in public, it will not change our feelings. We believe that persistence in not forgiving is a punishment for people and has no influence on people at all. They live a carefree life, while we are more and more addicted to unforgivable poison. Hating them is our reason to live. Lies tell us that giving up what drives and supports us will leave us with nothing. Lying about not forgiving is our only weapon.