I always hurt others with my words, what should I do?

Verbal injury is sometimes a heavy blow to others, and the most serious consequences are fatal. Therefore, we must pay attention to our words at ordinary times. Remember, never use words to stimulate others, hurt others, make them despair to the bottom, and push them to the point of nowhere to go when they are hit by something. To be kind to others is to be kind to yourself, and to respect others is to respect yourself.

For those who always use words to hurt others, you must understand that if you are rude to others, others will not be polite to you either. Therefore, if you always use words to hurt others, others will not speak kindly to you, let alone be friends with you. Using words to hurt others does no good to yourself or others, but more harm. This is an immoral and impolite thing, and this bad behavior should be stopped in time.

Some people don’t pay attention at ordinary times and have become accustomed to using words to hurt others. They will hurt others as soon as they open their mouths. So what should we do? First of all, you have to watch your mouth and think twice before you act. Now that you know you have this shortcoming, you must think clearly and carefully before speaking. Subconsciously, you must change this bad habit and don't use your brain to say a bunch of hurtful words. If you don't get rid of this bad habit, you probably won't have many friends around you in the future, and no one will want to be with you or be close to you. This is obviously a personal character issue that makes everyone dislike you. Therefore, if you don’t want your words to hurt others, you must control your mouth and think twice before you speak. Use your brain to think carefully about whether what you are about to say will hurt others. Don't blurt out words that hurt others because you are in a hurry to speak. There is no reward for rushing to speak. If you want to say something that won't hurt others, then you can say it. If you want to say something that might hurt someone else, then shut up. It's a hundred times better to say nothing than to speak.

Secondly, you can usually observe more what those people who can talk say. There are always words that some people say that make people feel like a spring breeze. Why do their words have such a good effect and how do they say them. You can observe more and learn more from others. Language is not used to hurt others, but to communicate better with others and promote feelings between you and others.

In short, if you don’t want to hurt others with your words, you must control your mouth, think twice before you act, observe what people who can speak say more, and learn more from others. I believe that through hard work, you will gradually get rid of this bad habit of using words to hurt others.