Boyfriend always says he loves you, but he can't bear to spend a penny. What kind of mentality is it?

I don't think women can be too materialistic, but love is not redemption. If a man has no ability and financial resources, don't stay with him, or your future road will be very difficult.

Some people say that love can't be expressed by money, so what can it be expressed by? We don't ask women to ask men to have a strong economic foundation, but if you don't have the courage and foundation, why do you want girls to accompany you through such a difficult life? You love her, why don't you leave her alone and let her pursue a better life?

First of all, he won't give you any money. If he really loves you, he will want to give you the best. Perhaps the best things are a burden to his financial ability, but he will also give you the best things within his ability. For example, if he has 10 thousand yuan, he may spend 5 thousand yuan to buy you a bag, which shows his love for you, because he is willing to pay for you, and he thinks your happiness is more important than keeping the money.

Second, let's look at what you said about incompetence. If a man is stingy and unwilling to spend money because of his lack of ability, then this love will be a particularly hard journey. This kind of thing, ability, really means more than just what you have. It may also involve talent and hard work. If a boy is willing to work hard for you, increase his ability and want to give you the best, I don't think such a man will be reluctant to give you a penny. Men who are unwilling to give you money are often people who can't improve their ability and don't want to work hard. All they want is for you to do nothing or even pay more.

So from the above two points, I don't think you need to be with such a man anymore, or you will suffer in the end.