The friendship you once thought would last forever turns out to be worthless?

When did our friendship die?

As you grow up to this point, there will always be someone to accompany you through a certain period of time in your life.

Those beautiful, unforgettable, memorable and regretful things all slowly disappear with the quack of time.

When you look back, you find that your "good friend" is no longer there. You have no topic, no contact, and you don't even know his or her phone number.

Some people say that "money is the fundamental measure of a relationship."

In the adult world, you have to learn to walk alone, endure alone, and experience everything alone.

So, when did our friendship "die"?

1

There are more and more people in the address book, but I feel that I am getting more and more lonely.

Now, I have a lively relationship with my friends, get along well with my boss and colleagues, and feel harmonious and happy. However, I can’t find anyone to express my true feelings and fragrance to. .

I have read such a short story, which is true and ironic.

The male protagonist stood in the middle of a venue with 80,000 people. He asked the audience: "If you don't remember my name, please sit down."

Many people sat down, and most of the lights in the audience were turned off.

The male protagonist continued: "If you don't know that my nickname in school is 'Princess', please sit down."

Most of the people sat down again.

"If you don't know who I am, sit down."

People looked at each other, but sat down anyway.

"If you have never seen me cry, please sit down."

After saying this, only a handful of people were still standing, and they looked at each other. Smiling at each other.

Finally, the male protagonist sighed and read "If we have lost contact, please sit down."

The few remaining people also sat down with complicated expressions.

The male protagonist was left alone, standing in the middle of the huge venue.

A total of 80,000 people.

It may also be the number of people we meet in our lifetime.

There may be family, friends, partners, colleagues, relatives, or even strangers who have met each other...

Once upon a time, you thought your friendship was a relationship that could It has flowed through the long river of time and experienced thousands of beautiful things.

Now I can't find his or her contact information, and I have even forgotten his or her name.

Even if you look through your address book and see all your WeChat friends.

Even if you find him, if you want to express your feelings to him as sincerely as before, you will find that: you have no way to speak, and it is very embarrassing.

2

I want to tell a story about Master Xing and Uncle Da.

Shumei grew up watching the movies of Stephen Chow and Ng Mang-tat. The two of them collaborated tacitly to create a classic Chinese comedy model and left behind many classic works.

It can be said that the two complement each other and achieve each other's success.

However, the only thing that can be found now that the two mentioned each other is "the feeling of not being able to communicate with each other until death."

So, until now, the two have never collaborated again. There were scheduling issues, and Ng Man-tat happened to be in poor health.

By chance, the right time and place, and going around and around, the relationships and emotions between people may deteriorate.

The weakening of friendship may not be because you and I have severed ties and have deep hatred.

All I can say is that time is really a cruel thing.

3

As we grow up, we discover that good friends will eventually drift away.

I have to admit that friendship comes in stages.

Cai Kangyong once said this in "Qi Pa Shuo":

"Never put friendship at an incredible height. Some friends just bring it to you in one stage." People who enjoy beautiful things should enjoy each other without binding each other. "

If one day you find that you no longer enjoy this relationship, it is probably the end of the friendship.

You like to eat hot pot, he likes to eat Japanese food, you can accommodate each other. You like watching movies, he likes reading, and you can share each other's insights.

But you like traveling, but he says it’s a waste of money, and you like playing games, but he says it’s a waste of time. From then on, you have a rift and a gap.

You will no longer think about going with him when you travel, and you will not call him when you play games. So, you slowly withdraw from each other's lives and stop contacting each other.

Until one day, he (she) got married, but did not tell you.

You suddenly remembered that you once said you would witness each other's happiest moments.

But now, you are no longer around him.

You tossed and turned at night and couldn't sleep. You wanted to send him a WeChat message to wish him a happy wedding, but in the end you fell asleep with this regret.

No matter what, if you grow in a relationship, that is the greatest meaning of the relationship.

When a friendship comes to an end, we don’t have to be sad or rush to save it.

A good relationship builds and nourishes each other.

Even if we are in the wind, it is not up to you and me to gather and disperse. Then we will be well and bless each other.