How are those girls with high emotional intelligence and talking tempered?

In order to develop high EQ, girls who can speak first have their own bottom line and principles, and will not change their self-esteem because of anything. Even if she does something wrong, she will continue to sum up lessons and make herself better and better. Secondly, people with high emotional intelligence also know how to listen and praise others. In the process of communicating with others, they will not be self-centered, but will only recognize their own views and positions, and also know how to listen to other people's ideas and needs, respond positively to each other, and let them feel respected. In addition, those girls with high emotional intelligence will also read more books in their lives. They will not be limited to their own work in life, but make their hobbies more extensive. In this process, they will explore themselves, improve themselves, let themselves contact more people, and make their conceptual system more perfect.

Girls with high emotional intelligence pay great attention to the changes of occasions in some places and will say different things according to different occasions. According to different environmental assessment, know how to deal with it, and speak according to others' needs to make them feel comfortable. Such language will also make others feel some strength, make them feel comfortable and promote communication between them. We should also know how to take care of other people's feelings and know what to say and what not to say.

A girl who can speak with high emotional intelligence knows that she should be measured at all times. Many people can't talk because they always say what they think. In this process, it is inevitable that some words will hurt each other. In fact, they won't say too much, and keep their words in their hearts. On the contrary, it will respect others and give them more room to think. Of course, you are responsible for what you say, so no matter who you talk to, you should think carefully and express it in your own language.

In the end, everyone should learn to be a talker with high emotional intelligence. In this process, it is possible for them to keep learning, and it is also possible for them to recognize themselves from the bottom of their hearts.