How can we avoid meeting love rat?

The first way is to listen to him, that is, to listen to how he talks.

Love rat is usually sweet-talking, saying things that make girls happy. Some girls can't resist these sugar-coated shells and will fall into the trap.

For example, Xiao Juan met such a love rat, which hurt her feelings.

As a 30-year-old leftover woman, she is very eager for love. After meeting Xiao Chao, Xiao Chao made a fierce pursuit of her and said a lot of nice words. For example, when they first met, Xiao Chao said, "We shouldn't meet, we should meet again." Another example is "I really love you, and I will die without you."

Xiao Juan felt that she had met true love, so after half a year of understanding, she married Xiaochao. However, what I didn't expect was that, shortly after marriage, I happened to find on Chao's mobile phone that he had said the same love words with other women. Xiao Juan couldn't accept this fact, had a quarrel with Chaoda and filed for divorce.

Many girls, like Xiao Juan, can't resist sweet talk. Sweet talk is the spice of love for lovers, but it has become a weapon to capture love for love rat. By paying attention to this, we can avoid meeting love rat and prevent our feelings from being hurt.

Second, observe its actions.

The second method is to observe his actions, that is, to see how he acts.

Some love rat said one thing and did another, but his words and deeds were different. Say how much I love you, but don't act when you actually do it.

Xiao Ai recently met a boy four years older than her, and it didn't take long for them to establish a relationship.

At first, Xiao Ai thought this man was very nice and promised to give her everything. For example, when Xiao Ai wanted to travel, the man promised to go with her. Xiao Ai wanted to buy a long-awaited bag, and the man promised to buy it for her.

However, day by day, the man did not make any movement. I asked him, he always used the excuse that he was not available now, was busy, or lost all his recently invested stocks and was short of money. I always fail to keep my promise, and even I promise to give her a birthday, I find excuses to shirk it.

Say one thing and do another. This is typical of love rat.

So when we get along, we must observe whether what he said can be fulfilled by action. Those who just talk and don't do it must stay away.

Third, taste its sex.

The third way is to appreciate nature, that is, to see if he loves and disciplines himself.

If a man doesn't know how to love himself in front of his lover, for example, in order to get your feelings, he can give up everything, or in public, in order to save his feelings, he implores you and cries bitterly.

On the surface, men love you very much, but this is actually a sign that they don't love themselves. This kind of self-love behavior shows that he has a strong desire for control and will cause great mental pressure on the woman. Even if the woman no longer loves him, she is willing to obey the man under pressure, but this love will not last long.

Therefore, if a girl meets a man who is kind to herself and can give up her dignity for you, she must stay away, because such love is too heavy for us to bear. In the end, you will hurt yourself.

Although we can't change love rat's nature, we can help us identify love rat by listening to his words, observing his actions and appreciating his nature, so as to avoid hurting our feelings.

If you also want to learn to distinguish love rat in love, so as not to meet inappropriate people, I suggest you read the book Love Business, which will teach you how to look at each other in love and make your love path smoother.