The orthodox marriage in "Ayi Aniu"

"Ayi Aniu" tells the tragic fate of Aniu, a girl from the Yi ethnic group. Ah Niu and Dayi, Ah Le and Le Qu, these four young people are in love with each other. Dayi has no influence due to her poor family, high price of betrothal gifts and the abusive attitude of Ah Niu's father. The two young men chose to obey and do nothing.

Ah Niu married the rich and powerful Le Qu under the order of her parents. After the marriage, Le Qu did nothing all day long, while Ah Niu did various kinds of work all day long. , and also had to be criticized by the Lequ family, all kinds of dislike, bad attitude and even domestic violence. After returning to her parents' home, her parents were cowardly and afraid of the power of the Lequ family, so they just asked her to endure it. Finally, Ayi had no choice but to hang himself. It starts with the wedding dress and ends with the wedding dress.

Part 2

The families on both sides solved Ah Niu’s problem. La Nuo also passed away, and I thought Le Qu could be with A Le. Ah Le waited twice but failed to get his wish to marry Le Qu. However, under the pressure of his family, he married Ah Ji, a powerful member of the family. Le Qu's family worked hard to raise a large amount of money as a bride price. Ahji, who got married, only slept all day and did not help with housework. Lequ Amu cursed her all day long, and there were all kinds of quarrels between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. When Le Qu came back from work, he saw his mother's embarrassment, which prompted Le Qu to beat Ah Ji severely. Ah Ji also returned to her parents' home and invited a prestigious tribesman to mediate. They were so powerful that in the end the bride price was wasted and additional compensation was given. After tens of thousands of dollars, Lequ failed to collect the money and ended up being beaten up by Brother Aji and others.

? In the end, the so-called family orthodoxy is the family power that becomes the fuse of the story.

? Facts have shown that the failure of Lequ’s marriage was due to the attitude of the family. They never treated each other sincerely and disliked her in various ways. They even allowed Lequ to beat and scold Ah Niu. Her husband wanted to persuade her and said that she should After learning a lesson, the only thing I saw was that Le Qu didn’t just play like before. She was forced by her tribe to marry someone she didn't like, but she didn't treat her well. She didn't fight for someone she liked, and she did nothing.

? We can see the traditional customs of ethnic minorities in the past. From today's perspective, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law still exists. Some young people in love are separated due to the issue of betrothal gifts. Marriage itself is very complicated. It doesn't mean it's as simple as before falling in love. After getting married, all kinds of household chores become annoying. So please be kind if you don’t like me. We must also know how to cherish it.