In married life, how should we deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and become her mother-in-law’s best friend?

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been a difficult problem since ancient times. Many social elites and highly educated people are very comfortable in their social relationships and work, but they still find it difficult to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law when they return home. This shows that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult to get along with. It is not an easy task. How a woman should get along with her mother-in-law after marriage has always been a hot topic in society. It is even more difficult to become best friends with her mother-in-law.

In my opinion, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should not be too deliberate in getting along with each other. They should have a good attitude and approach when facing her, and they do not necessarily have to be best friends. After all, there are so many years between them. The mode of getting along and the social concepts may be very different. In addition, the two people are the elder and the younger. Forcibly moving in the direction of best friends will only be counterproductive. It is better to treat each other as guests and be more suitable for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

First of all, as a daughter-in-law, you must have the awareness and attitude of a daughter-in-law. Although the ancient bad habit of sleeping in the morning and dusk no longer exists, you still need to have the respect you deserve. Many people have no respect when facing their mother-in-law. It can be said that it is not acceptable to shout loudly or even be disrespectful in words. Let's not say that the other party is our husband's mother. Even if it is an old man who has nothing to do with us, we should still have a certain degree of politeness.

Secondly, in the face of my mother-in-law’s nagging and trouble-making, we have to solve it in a relatively smooth manner. There is absolutely no point in arguing. There is never a loser or a winner among the family, and we can’t stand it when we can’t handle it ourselves. When the time comes, she will hand over the problem to her husband. After all, he is her mother-in-law's biological son. It will be more convenient and effective for them to get along and deal with problems without creating too many gaps.

Finally, don’t hold grudges. The most taboo thing between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is to hold grudges. Digest any conflicts on the day and don’t bring them into your future life. Otherwise, there will always be countless thorns between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. .

So, we must treat our relationship with our mother-in-law seriously and carefully. If we can become best friends, everyone will be happy, but if not, we must treat each other with respect and treat each other as guests.