Classic words of husband's family (if you want to get along well with husband's family)

Every family has a "handwritten book": sister-in-law has no job, you have to participate in planning; Brother-in-law wants to study, so you have to care about all kinds of things. All kinds of things bother you because they have become your family. At this time, you are required to warm this big family with love and maintain the unity and friendship of this big family with true feelings and enthusiasm. If you want to get along well with them, you must learn to pay skillfully. Below, we give you some suggestions for your reference.

(1) Keep smiling at every relative. After marriage, no matter the relatives or in-laws, they have frequent contact for various reasons. You must learn to smile at these visiting relatives and friends. Because a smile means friendship regardless of race or region, a heartfelt smile can quickly shorten the distance between people and invisibly increase your charm.

(2) Learn to understand and care for your loved ones. Women are sensitive by nature. If you care about the needs of others and help relatives and friends get out of trouble, your thoughtfulness will warm the hearts of others like warm sunshine. For example, when your husband's sister-in-law is seriously ill, you should remember to visit more often and talk about topics she cares about or is interested in; When she is sad and unhappy, you should ask more kindly; When she is depressed by setbacks or blows, you should encourage her more. Your thoughtfulness and concern sometimes don't require much effort, but others will feel it.

(3) The word "thank you" warms people's hearts. In the process of communicating with relatives and friends, the word "thank you" will be very effective if used properly. Here are some rules: "Thank you" must be sincere. Say it when you really want to thank each other, and give it feelings and life.

Thank you directly Don't be vague when thanking, and don't let others think that you are embarrassed to thank him.

Find opportunities to thank others. Try to cultivate this good habit, because thanking others is not an innate quality.

(4) Master the Art of Apologizing When you bring trouble to your loved ones or cause unhappiness to others, you should apologize to the other party no matter how small the matter is. The most common way to apologize is to say "I'm sorry".

Apologizing to relatives in time can avoid quarrels that cause headaches and even more serious conflicts. From this perspective, apologizing is much more important than thanking. Apologizing is generally asking the other person to forgive himself, so it must be straightforward. When apologizing to others, you should be brave enough to take all the responsibilities. It is best not to make any excuses for your actions, because making excuses for your mistakes will definitely dilute the atmosphere of apology and probably lose the opportunity for others to forgive you.

Be good at accepting apologies. When relatives sincerely apologize to us, we should be considerate, forgive and comfort him in time.

Sincere apology and sincere understanding will make people feel the best feelings between people and deepen their feelings.

(5) Be grateful. Although those complicated and unforgettable relatives and friends make you feel strange, think about it. Those people have been with your closest and favorite people for twenty or thirty years. They are taking care of your lover when you are not around.

Aren't you grateful for that? So don't just be nice to your parents' relatives, but fully accept your husband's relatives and friends.

(6) Always greet your relatives. Remember to greet your relatives on holidays and let them know that you have them in your heart and they are very important to you.