Letters from parents to their children studying abroad

When children go abroad to study, parents will definitely have 10 thousand worries, whether their children can adapt, whether they can take care of themselves and so on. The following is a letter written by parents to their children studying abroad. Welcome to read and study.

Letter from parents to their children studying abroad 1

Dear daughter:

Recently, my father saw a report about college students committing suicide. Academic pressure, job search failure, love frustration, family breakdown ... can all be reasons for the beloved children to give up living like flowers. Reading makes people sigh and feel awkward. When you 18 years old study abroad, dad wants to talk to you about life. I want to tell you that in my father's eyes, your happiness is more important than Excellence. Send you three sentences, hoping to enrich your luggage and light your heart lamp.

The first sentence: There is only one life.

For everyone, without life, there is nothing. Therefore, the first rule of life morality is to be kind to life. The greatest sin in the world is to deprive life (whether it is one's own or others') of its innocence.

When you enter the university campus, you will inevitably feel anxious about life in the face of endless pressures such as study pressure, communication pressure, emotional pressure and employment pressure. You should face and bear the pressure correctly, and learn to solve and dissolve it. First, the pursuit of true happiness. There are two kinds of happiness, one is happiness in others' eyes, and the other is happiness in one's own heart. Only the happiness in your heart is the real and essential happiness. I would rather "laugh on the bike" than "cry in the BMW". In dad's eyes, happiness is more important than Excellence. Secondly, cultivate an optimistic personality. Chekhov said, "life is a very unpleasant joke, but it is not difficult to make it beautiful, as long as you do two things well: be good at satisfying the status quo;" I'm glad to feel that things could have been worse! This is not difficult. "If you are really unlucky, you should also believe that misfortune is only a dark passage, and going out is happiness. Third, the method of training adjustment. When you are emotionally unstable, you should use reason to suppress your anger. " When you are angry, count to 10 before you speak. If you are angry, count to 100. "You can express and vent your emotions in a healthy and constructive way. For example, keep a diary, go running, dance or play ball, and chat with friends ... you should believe that you have the ability to solve your own problems; You know, no matter how difficult the situation is, no one will always be in it, and the problem will always turn around; You have to understand that small changes will bring big changes. Starting from small things, we can see the hope of solving the problem. ...

The second sentence: own your world.

Now, the whole world is open to you. In your world, you must first see your own value. Each of us can create miracles, differences and values. At the same time, everyone should fulfill their responsibilities. A great winner has one thing in common, that is, "I have a responsibility and I will deal with it." Yes, the world is not so perfect and pure. The increasingly rich material life and complex social environment have brought negative effects such as hedonism, money worship and extreme individualism, which easily make our moral concepts vague and our moral self-discipline ability decline. Parents expect too much from their children, or they are indifferent, or they do everything too much, or they let themselves go. This phenomenon also causes some students around you to be psychologically fragile, confused and out of control. But you should know that if a person is right, his world will be right. In this world, what you need to do most is to be yourself!

The third sentence: cherish every day.

After the Wenchuan earthquake, scholar Zhou said on his blog, "I, you, everyone alive, we are all survivors." Dad agrees with this view. Appreciate what you have and know how to cherish it; Do things that don't belong to you and learn to give up. In fact, we don't even know whether we will be alive tomorrow. We should learn to cherish and enjoy every day. The first thing Thoreau does every morning is to tell himself a good news. Then, he will say to himself, how lucky he is to live in the world. Now, I need you to act immediately and do what you want. Sow the next action and you will gain a habit; Sow a habit and you will gain a character; Sow a character and you will reap a destiny.

Love, dad.

Letters from parents to their children studying abroad II

Son:

You are about to leave your motherland and relatives, fly to a distant and unfamiliar country, and embark on a long road to study. On the occasion of parting, dad has a thousand words in his heart that he wants to say to you. I really don't know where to start. Your mother, grandparents and all our relatives are proud of you, and we feel unprecedented pride and pride. We will always bless our giant panda, with our confident, calm and rational mind, indomitable will, enterprising and sunny quality, healthy and strong body, shouldering hopes, responsibilities and dreams, and creating a bright future on the other side of the ocean. We will always believe in you and support you-my son!

"Tian Xingjian, the gentleman strives for self-improvement, the terrain is Kun, and the gentleman carries things with morality." A noble person must have ideals and beliefs. If you have ever lived in ignorance and have no clear goals, you should set lofty goals for yourself from this moment on. Remember the purpose of this trip, son. Don't be confused by money and material things in western society, and don't be troubled by all kinds of spiritual garbage. "The night gave me black eyes, but I used them to look for light." Seize the time to study hard, constantly enrich yourself, be the backbone of the nation and the mainstay of society; One-sided pursuit of material enjoyment, indulging in feasting, will only play with things and do nothing.

When you are alone, it is very important to learn to get along with others. Confucius asked the gentleman to keep his mouth shut, cultivate one's morality, and rule the country and level the world. Keeping his mouth shut, Xiu De is to cultivate his mind, not to say things he shouldn't say, not to do things he shouldn't do, and to be kind to others. Don't haggle over every ounce, but be more reasonable. On the premise of learning cultural knowledge well, learn to be a man, establish a good social circle, and lay a solid foundation for future career. Han Xin was cheated and humiliated, and finally went down in history, telling future generations that "a little intolerance leads to great mischief". My son is peaceful, but after all, he is young and energetic, and it is inevitable to be impulsive. This is actually what dad is most worried about. I'll give you a word: "Sparrows know the ambition of swans".

China is a country of etiquette. After going abroad, you not only represent yourself, but also your relatives and motherland. I, panda Kai, am spoiled at home, and my behavior is quite sloppy and casual. I don't even care about cooking, laundry and housekeeping. Whenever my father thinks of this, I can't get rid of my worries. The ancients said: If you don't sweep a house, how can you sweep the world? I hope my son can learn to start from small things, and leave an impression on Uncle Zhang, the landlord, the teacher, the classmates and the people around him. He is studious, polite, graceful, helpful and clean, so as not to make people look down on us in China. Don't underestimate the little things around you, details determine success or failure, and small things destroy people!

China has an ancient poem: if you don't keep secrets, you will lose your position; If you don't keep it secret, you will lose your virginity; If you don't allow it, it will be harmful. When your son is out of town, you should pay attention to everything. When he meets someone, he can't leave my heart behind. This is not to teach you philistinism, but to let you learn to protect yourself. Like our country, Canada has good people and bad people. If you are not careful, you may get into someone else's game. Don't communicate with others easily in family and economy. Be careful when making friends, especially in China. If you encounter something important that you can't decide, don't deal with it rashly. Take Uncle Zhang's advice and contact Dad, who will go all out to help you. Grandparents are too old to be frightened. Although my mother has a strong personality, she is a lesbian and has a weak side. You should learn to report good news instead of bad news, and don't let them worry about you.

When you are abroad, you will inevitably feel lonely and homesick. But you must understand that studying abroad is the dream of many students. What is pure loneliness? There are many children studying abroad like you, and it is inevitable that they will have feelings after a long time. Eat drink man woman, people's great desires are also reasonable, and the key is how to treat them. I think a girl who can live hand in hand with me should have the following qualities: kindness, diligence, thinking, understanding life, caring for her family, filial piety to her parents and family harmony. As for looks and economic conditions, there is no need to ask too much, because those are fleeting. Real life depends on your own creation, and the process of enjoying creation is to enjoy happiness. Dad actually doesn't want you to fall in love too early, affectionate and lacking in heroism. Grandpa Jia didn't always teach you that people should do what they should do and not be distracted, so that they can do great things in the future. A person's life is extremely short, so you must not attend to one thing and lose sight of the other.

Pay attention to absorbing foreign advanced culture, while not giving up Chinese civilization, and learn to be eclectic. China has a long history and profound culture. As China people, we should be proud. Westernization will only make foreigners look down on you. We should learn to absorb any culture critically and avoid following other people's advice and having no ideas of our own. We always say that what is national belongs to the world. In fact, we are talking about the soul of national culture, and so are individuals. Without thinking, listening blindly will eventually become a skin without soul. Why should I tell you this? Objectively speaking, there are profound contradictions and differences between western countries and China in politics. They infiltrate and influence us in various ways. For example, some institutions have great influence overseas, and it is very likely that someone will seek your publicity overseas. What I want to tell you is that at the age when you lack political discernment, the best way is to refuse. Only with a sound world outlook and the ability to distinguish right from wrong can we talk about participating in politics. There are also social evils such as drug abuse and prostitution that are legalized in the West. You should also learn to understand them correctly. Many things are related to national conditions, national traditions and social security. We can't simply use the concept of right and wrong to draw conclusions, but one thing is certain, that is, any behavior that breaks through the bottom line of social morality is definitely despised by mainstream civilization. I believe my son is immune in this respect and won't worry us.

We should learn to respect the local culture, the customs and habits of others, and make irresponsible remarks about people and things we don't understand or like. Because you have no right to interfere in other people's lives, you can always sum up the experience you need from other people's successes and failures. "If you are rich, you will help the world, and if you are poor, you will be immune." Your current state should be immune to it first. Democracy and equality are the main bodies of western civilization, and the legal order derived from them is very strict. As small as traffic rules and neighborhood relations, there are laws to follow. I hope my son can integrate into the western legal society as soon as possible and be a law-abiding person. After going abroad, some people squander their parents' hard-earned money at home, talk about ostentation and extravagance, waste time, completely forget their identity, lose their basic responsibilities and obligations, and make foreigners sneer. Son, you should remember that thrift and hard work are your greatest gratitude and reward to your family. I believe my son won't let me down.

The most important thing is to develop good living habits, arrange a reasonable schedule for yourself, pay attention to food safety, learn to prevent diseases and have a good body. Participate in public welfare activities in your spare time, learn about western civilized society from multiple angles, and constantly exercise your ability to live independently. Be honest and trustworthy, don't cheat in everything. You can't cheat cleverness for a while, and you will eventually shoot yourself in the foot.

Dad originally wrote this letter by hand, but later decided to type it by computer, just to tell you that I will master the network and computer operation as soon as possible in the future, so as to facilitate our communication. Let's have a competition to see if I can master the telephone quickly, or if you can break the language barrier quickly. I said a lot, hoping to help my giant panda. When we wait for Ma Zhuang, we should let it ride in the vast base. When the eagle's wings grow up, it should be allowed to fight freely in the sky. My giant panda Kai is the steed and eagle of our family, and the whole family expects you to fly higher and create your own world. Dear, go ahead bravely! Your sails are flying in the wind, and we look forward to your early return with honor.

I wish the giant panda a safe journey!

dad

Letters from parents to their children studying abroad 3

Son:

The teacher asked my mother to tell you the truth. My mother doesn't know what to say to you at the moment. I remember when you first entered junior high school, my mother's greatest wish was that you could be admitted to Zhoushan Middle School. You didn't let my mother down. Through your efforts, I am now admitted to the ship with excellent results. Thinking of the result of that day, my mother was really moved and even shed tears. I remember that day you knew the results had come out, but you wouldn't let me check the scores. You are calm, but I can't be calm. I ran to the office to help you find out that you are the ninth in the district. Mom couldn't believe her ears and checked them again. The result is correct. My daughter is the ninth in the whole region. I was so excited that I cried. My daughter is great! Your efforts have been rewarded with the best! Mom is really touched!

Now that you are in high school, mom knows that you have grown up. You know how to arrange and realize many things. Mom, don't worry too much Mom knows that your study task will be more arduous. Mom just wants to tell you that it is also the most important to study hard, have a good rest and listen carefully in class. It is what mom says to you every day, but I still want to emphasize it with you now. What you need most now is time. Every time I see you fall asleep at your desk while doing your homework, or fall asleep in bed with your clothes on, your mother will feel very distressed. Although she will be mean to you at that time, she will wake you up and won't let you sleep, but she really loves you! So try to relax yourself and have a good sleep when you have time! What you lack now is sleep! And lack of nutrition! Only a healthy body can have a healthy learning state, so you must listen to your mother and eat some nutrients! If you don't eat nutrition, you will lose your health. Then you should take medicine. Nutrition is better than medicine!

There is something wrong with the mobile phone. Mom still has to praise you. You did a good job. You locked your cell phone at school. You already know that studying is the most important thing now, and nothing else is important to you. Mom is so happy!

Three years of high school will pass quickly, but it is the most crucial three years for you and it is also a long three years. You need to make a lot of efforts, which is also an old saying my mother often tells you, but my mother still wants to tell you that everything comes to him who waits! Mom wants you to stay ahead of your classmates. Don't relax! Mom believes that you are the best! Although this is a little stressful for you, mom's hope is also the driving force. I remember my mother once said to you, "just do it, don't regret it"!

Mom loves you! You are mom's pride!

mother

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Letters from parents to their children studying abroad 4

Dear daughter:

Recently, my father saw a report about college students committing suicide. Academic pressure, job search failure, love frustration, family breakdown ... can all be reasons for the beloved children to give up living like flowers. Reading makes people sigh and feel awkward. When you 18 years old study abroad, dad wants to talk to you about life. I want to tell you that in my father's eyes, your happiness is more important than Excellence. Send you three sentences, hoping to enrich your luggage and light your heart lamp.

The first sentence: There is only one life.

For everyone, without life, there is nothing. Therefore, the first rule of life morality is to be kind to life. The greatest sin in the world is to deprive life (whether it is one's own or others') of its innocence.

When you enter the university campus, you will inevitably feel anxious about life in the face of endless pressures such as study pressure, communication pressure, emotional pressure and employment pressure. You should face and bear the pressure correctly, and learn to solve and dissolve it. First, the pursuit of true happiness. There are two kinds of happiness, one is happiness in others' eyes, and the other is happiness in one's own heart. Only the happiness in your heart is the real and essential happiness. I would rather "laugh on the bike" than "cry in the BMW". In dad's eyes, happiness is more important than Excellence. Secondly, cultivate an optimistic personality. Chekhov said, "life is a very unpleasant joke, but it is not difficult to make it beautiful, as long as you do two things well: be good at satisfying the status quo;" I'm glad to feel that things could have been worse! This is not difficult. "If you are really unlucky, you should also believe that misfortune is only a dark passage, and going out is happiness. Third, the method of training adjustment. When you are emotionally unstable, you should use reason to suppress your anger. " When you are angry, count to 10 before you speak. If you are angry, count to 100. "You can express and vent your emotions in a healthy and constructive way. For example, keep a diary, go running, dance or play ball, and chat with friends ... you should believe that you have the ability to solve your own problems; You know, no matter how difficult the situation is, no one will always be in it, and the problem will always turn around; You have to understand that small changes will bring big changes. Starting from small things, we can see the hope of solving the problem. ...

The second sentence: own your world.

Now, the whole world is open to you. In your world, you must first see your own value. Each of us can create miracles, differences and values. At the same time, everyone should fulfill their responsibilities. A great winner has one thing in common, that is, "I have a responsibility and I will deal with it." Yes, the world is not so perfect and pure. The increasingly rich material life and complex social environment have brought negative effects such as hedonism, money worship and extreme individualism, which easily make our moral concepts vague and our moral self-discipline ability decline. Parents either expect too much from their children, or they are indifferent, or they care too much, or they let themselves go. This phenomenon also causes some students around you to be psychologically fragile, confused and out of control. But you should know that if a person is right, his world will be right. In this world, what you need to do most is to be yourself!

The third sentence: cherish every day.

After the Wenchuan earthquake, scholar Zhou said on his blog, "I, you, everyone alive, we are all survivors." Dad agrees with this view. Appreciate what you have and know how to cherish it; Do things that don't belong to you and learn to give up. In fact, we don't even know whether we will be alive tomorrow. We should learn to cherish and enjoy every day. The first thing Thoreau does every morning is to tell himself a good news. Then, he will say to himself, how lucky he is to live in the world. Now, I need you to act immediately and do what you want. Sow the next action and you will gain a habit; Sow a habit and you will gain a character; Sow a character and you will reap a destiny.

Love, dad.

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