What if someone scolds me?

To be scolded, you need to do the following five things:

1, ignore it, a gentleman is not angry with a cow, and the other person hurts people with his mouth, and he can't be as knowledgeable as the other person.

No matter when we meet, we can't swear. Swearing is extremely uncivilized. Since the other party started cursing, the wisest thing for us to do is to ignore it and do our own thing. Never scold him, it's beneath your dignity. What's more, swearing is often because the other person can't convince others and the anger in his heart can't be expressed, so he will use swearing to make himself look arrogant. In fact, this is just a manifestation of inner fragility and fragility.

2. Get out of the scolded space, leave the awkward atmosphere and adjust the injured mind in different environments.

Now that I've been scolded, I don't want to lip-synch. You need to leave this environment decisively. Perhaps, without the object of venting, we can calm down and look at the present things rationally. And because the environment has changed, the atmosphere will not be filled with unpleasant smell, and it will make your heart feel much better.

3, eat some dessert, let the sweetness dilute the unpleasant mood, and then do something.

Whoever is scolded is uncomfortable. Now that being scolded has become a fact, it can only make this bad mood disappear as soon as possible. Eating some sweets like chocolate can make us feel happy. Because science has proved that dessert can be quickly converted into serotonin in cells after being decomposed by human organs, and it will make people feel happy after entering the brain. In this way, unpleasant things can be well diluted.

4, find a bosom friend to talk to, the bitter water has passed, the heart is comfortable, and then let yourself return to normal.

If you feel uncomfortable, you can find your best friend and talk to each other about your inner unhappiness. Sometimes, if you don't put it in your heart, you can digest and absorb half of your inner unhappiness. At this time, if your friends have good suggestions to help you solve your problems, you can quickly use negative pressure as motivation to cheer you up and meet tomorrow's challenges.

5. Ask friends to go to happy together, and vent negative emotions through various activities, thus restoring vitality.

If you don't feel well, just find a good friend to go to the movies and go to disco. Relax your body in this way and let yourself vent your inner unhappiness to the fullest. Often sweating all over, coupled with the care and consideration of friends, it is easy to pull you out of your uncomfortable state of mind, and then you will soon forget your unhappiness at that time.

In fact, anyone who is scolded feels bad, but we need to adjust ourselves and let this unpleasant mood pass as soon as possible. But not for long. Because, if you are scolded for your own reasons, you should think more about it in your future work and life. What's more, even if you make mistakes, the other party will not swear, which only shows that the other party's level is very limited. You can only make as few mistakes as possible when you meet such people. If it's the other person's fault, you can't let the other person's fault punish you. It is necessary to shorten the time when the other party affects the mood and let yourself return to normal as soon as possible.