There is a saying in China that a dutiful son comes from a stick. what do you think of it ?

I believe many parents have heard the saying that a dutiful son comes out under a stick. The original intention of this sentence is that parents should be strict with their children, even by beating and cursing, so that children will be obedient and filial, but in fact this method is no longer applicable now.

First, the ancient way of education Han Feizi once said that a strong family has five evils, and a loving mother has lost her family. In fact, in ancient times, everyone's educational methods were like this, and in ancient times, this educational method had certain effects, but it is not applicable now. In ancient times, the education popularization rate was still very low, which meant that many people were unable to read, even illiterate. In ancient times, people also wanted their children to become officials. When they beat and scold, they are more inclined to hate iron and not produce. Among the parents' sticks, they are more eager to learn, and they may not have many opportunities to learn by themselves, so they are so eager to hope that their children can become a success.

Second, it is not applicable now. Now that education is more popular, there are many ways for children to receive education. They have access to information from the outside world, and much more. Because there is only the Internet now, and the information dissemination speed is very fast, and there are many educational resources, but in ancient times, only by taking this road can we gain knowledge and have more opinions. Now, children can learn a lot at home. They understand that there are many ways of education, not just beating and cursing. Therefore, children will resist the stick and even scold their parents in turn.

Third, we should use appropriate methods. Nowadays, there are very few parents who educate their children with sticks. More importantly, communicate with them well. A dutiful son is born under a stick. Although they have certain functions, they may not be suitable for every family. It depends on the children's situation and family education, and whether this stick-like education is applicable.