Do you like living alone?

In the evening, I received a phone call from my friend Mingyu and asked me if I knew where I could rent a cheap house. Mingyu is very busy at work and often goes out early and comes back late. In order not to affect the normal life of her family and prevent her parents from urging her to get married, she wants to move out and live alone.

Nowadays, more and more friends live alone, watch movies alone, go shopping alone and eat alone. You can see that there are many single apartments in the market. In Japan, there is another kind of restaurant that is exclusive to one person and is also very popular. It is said to be very popular.

Is the feeling of loneliness good or bad? Netizens express their opinions and are roughly divided into two factions:

0 1. Lonely school

@ peony: I can't live alone. I have been alone for more than ten years. I don't want to eat alone. I am sleepy and don't want to sleep. I'm afraid I overslept. No one shouted.

@ Understand: I dare not get sick, because no one helps you register, and I dare not get drunk, because no one hugs you, and I dare not take a nap. I'm afraid that when I wake up, the room will be dark and helpless. I don't like festivals. No matter how lively and festive the festival is, the dining table is just a pair of chopsticks and a bowl.

@ Life is quiet and beautiful, the world is stable: I have lived alone for a while, and that kind of loneliness and emptiness is not everyone's experience, especially after a nap in winter, when I open my eyes, the room is dark, and a feeling that the whole world has abandoned you arises spontaneously. ...

@ 13593277: I have experienced everything you said, but I don't want to live alone. I don't go out alone, and I have a toothache. When going out, people who see delicious food can't eat much, and no one enjoys seeing beautiful things. Traveling alone looks chic, but it's too lonely. ...

@Cathy4023: I am sick, I am alone; Bored, hiding alone; Pain, a person blocking; Walking alone in the street; On the way, a person thought; At night, a person's bed ... gradually gets used to a person's life, becomes silent, becomes indifferent, doesn't want to talk, doesn't want to watch ... I'm not arrogant, and I'm not talking nonsense, but I'm tired of losing dependence at any time.

@ Li Li: The tea shop downstairs is engaged in buy one get one free activities ... There is a feeling of despair in an instant.

02. Freehand brushwork.

@ Give up the Sunflower of the Sun: There is nothing wrong with living alone. A person, a lamp, a book.

@ Ladybug: One person, one room, three cats, a bunch of snacks and wild cats are rampant. I don't know how cool this life is. Why can't I get married?

@ Doug: At present, my husband is abroad and lives alone. Saturday and Sunday are rare leisure, so I naturally wake up, tidy up, sit in the living room and watch movies, take a shower in the afternoon, go to the supermarket, cook my own dinner, and then watch movies. I can stay downstairs for two days. The bad thing about a person is that he doesn't want to go out for a walk. The good place is to lie down as long as he wants. When I come home late after working overtime, it will be warm to turn on the light. Give yourself a new flower, daisy, lily, rose, instead of once every two weeks. Buy your favorite paintings and put them in the living room. The next step is to change the floor and put up wallpaper. Life is beautiful.

@ To be continued: For people who are introverted and unwilling to talk, living alone is actually quite good, especially after 90' s, when parents want to find a place to relax and are unhappy at work, they can stay at home alone.

@Onlyone: I like living alone, which is especially free. I can order a pizza and stay in bed at midnight to watch a movie. That's cool. I miss it. In fact, when I am unhappy, even if someone around me doesn't fart, I might as well stay at home, cry once if I want to, and then vent it. If I don't want to cry, I can eat, drink and arrange it in the way I like.

@ Jingjing Jingjing: I am used to living alone. I don't feel lonely and I don't feel sorry for myself. I am used to going to work every day, going home to watch a movie or watching variety shows or news. Water the flowers and plants on weekends, turn on the warm lights, read a book leisurely, cook a pot of thick soup, and taste it slowly with the fragrance of lilies in the afternoon. Living alone makes the heart more calm and calm.

Whether we like the feeling of living alone or not, we should live well and take good care of our bodies. Work, life, entertainment and study are all important. When you live alone, do what you like and enjoy living alone. Live with your lover and family and get along well. The best time is not the future, not the past, but the present.