What should parents do when children are crying to buy toys?

When children cry and want to buy toys, parents might as well find a place where no one is around to make them cry. I believe that most parents have the same experience. Children want to buy a toy when playing outside, and parents will cry all the time and even roll on the ground if they don't buy it. At this time, the practice of parents is very important. If parents don't stick to their own principles and choose to buy them for their children, similar problems will be more serious in the future. If parents reprimand their children, they may feel inferior and wronged, which is not conducive to their psychological growth.

Parents may wish to find a quiet and safe place where their children can cry for a while. Parents should not try to preach to their children, let alone beat and scold them. When the child is crying and excited, the parents' preaching is just like nonsense, which is not only ineffective, but also may stimulate the child's mood and aggravate his distress. It is even more inappropriate to beat and scold children, which will hurt their hearts. Through research, it is found that if parents often educate their children by beating and cursing, children will easily feel inferior or extreme.

Seeing parents sitting on the side unmoved, the child will naturally stop crying for a while. At this time, parents should not be busy comforting their children, just tell them to cry and continue to cry. After the child's mood is completely stable, parents can start educating their children and let them talk about the reasons why they want to buy toys. After all, there are already many similar toys at home. Doing so can help children exercise their language skills, and at the same time form the habit of communicating with their parents, which is of great help to later adolescence.

After the child tells the reason, parents can buy it for the child according to the situation, but don't meet the child's requirements every time, about three times, so that the child can see hope and be willing to continue to communicate with parents in the future. Parents should stick to their own principles and not buy toys for their children just because they cry.