Mother-in-law's sick daughter-in-law gave her instant noodles and told her husband that "moon meal" was the most nourishing. Is this revenge?

I heard from a friend what she saw and heard in the hospital. At that time, she was accompanying her sick mother in the hospital. After serving her mother for lunch, she sat on a bench in the corridor and played with her mobile phone. At this moment, I heard a mother and son talking beside me.

The little boy said, "Mom, haven't you always told me that instant noodles are nutritious food and you can't eat more?" Grandma is ill now. Why do you keep giving her instant noodles? "

My friend looked up and saw the woman holding an instant noodle in her hand. The expression on her face is a little strange. Hearing the child's words, the woman didn't get angry, but smiled and said, "Your grandmother likes instant noodles very much. Sick people are poor. We should try our best to meet their demands. In this way, they will be happy. "

The woman paused and continued: "When my mother gave birth to you, my grandmother often let me eat instant noodles. She said that instant noodles are especially nutritious and easy to cook, so she bought five boxes at once. Usually she is busy playing cards, so let me cook instant noodles at home alone. "

After the instant noodles were made, the woman took them into the ward. The old man lying in bed glanced at the instant noodles and immediately complained discontentedly: "How is it instant noodles again?" I'm sick now. Didn't you kill me by letting me eat this nutritious food? ! "

The woman put the instant noodles on the table: "When I was in confinement, you said that instant noodles were particularly nutritious. Now I'll cook for you. Why blame me instead? " The old man looked at the instant noodles and was silent for a long time.

In fact, although this lady's behavior is inappropriate, her mood may be understandable by many people. This is a very common "revenge on the moon".

First, what is "revenge on the moon"?

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been a very sensitive issue since ancient times. Under normal circumstances, many mothers-in-law will take care of their daughters-in-law because of their weak health after giving birth, but some mothers-in-law are indifferent to their daughters-in-law, even cynical and critical, which makes their daughters-in-law feel very chilling and even angry.

When it's her mother-in-law's turn to be sick and helpless in the future, the treasure mothers will think of the situation that they were isolated and helpless at the beginning. Not only will I not feel sorry for my mother-in-law, but I will become more and more wronged, let alone help, and I have a conscience when I fall into the rain.

Second, why can a woman hate for a month for a lifetime?

1. People can often see people's hearts best when they are most helpless.

It is said that people's hearts are flesh, and the confinement for more than a month is not long, short or short. But it is always at this time that it is easiest to see people's hearts clearly. If the daughter-in-law is the most helpless, the mother-in-law not only does not take the initiative to help, but also stands and makes all kinds of cynicism, without worrying about her back. After that, my mother-in-law is ill, and it is basically impossible for my daughter-in-law to take care of herself.

2. confinement requires frequent begging.

The pain of confinement is no less than giving birth. Usually mothers are very weak at this time, some of them are so serious that they can't even hold their hands. So we need someone to help us.

If at this time, my mother-in-law is not only inconsiderate, but also keeps complaining: "Others are not so melodramatic as you, and you have the most things!" If you always hear her mother-in-law say such things, which baby mother can not be sad?

Of course, in real life, there will be many good mother-in-law, who not only cares for her daughter-in-law everywhere, but also helps her daughter-in-law to have a confinement. Usually, this kind of situation will always make the daughter-in-law grateful and will care more about her mother-in-law in the future.

There is a skeleton in the cupboard. If there is a conflict at ordinary times, if the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can tolerate each other a few steps, especially during the period when the daughter-in-law gives birth to a child and confinement, the mother-in-law will spare no effort to help. I believe the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be solved.

During confinement, did all the precious mothers get the careful care of their in-laws? If my mother-in-law doesn't care about herself during confinement, can she let go of her original "resentment" and help when her mother-in-law needs someone to take care of her when she is sick?