When two people are together, they don't know what to say and what to do.

Two people together, don't know what to say. It depends on whether you just met and didn't know what to say, or whether you became speechless after being together for a long time.

If it's because we just met, we can talk about food, two people's hobbies, work, views on recent hot events and so on. Everything is new to you. Talking about anything can tentatively start a topic. If the other person is not interested, don't talk about this topic in depth and end it as soon as possible. If the other party is interested in this topic, they can discuss it in depth.

If it is because we have been together for a long time, it is generally because of these two reasons: First, the feedback received during communication is not good; The second is mutual boredom.

The first reason is that when one party talks about a topic with the other party excitedly, the other party often behaves slanderously, perfunctory or indifferent, and even can't understand what the other party says. At this time, the communication desire of people who take the initiative to raise the topic will gradually decrease until they finally give up communication completely.

The second reason is not only that I don't want to communicate, but that there is something wrong with the emotional nature between two people. "Nothing to say" is just one of the manifestations. The popular understanding is: I don't care because I don't love it.

Don't forget your active mind, think about the past, look through the chat records of the previous two people, find the chat mode of that period, and look at the photos of that period. Maybe you will still have a feeling of heartache.

Only when one party takes the initiative, the other party will take the initiative and open the topic.