Don't let friends around you hurt you.

Writer Moliere said: "In this world, you can lack lovers, but friends are always indispensable." In Moliere's view, friends are the catalyst and palette in life. With friends, our life will be rich and colorful. With friends, we won't seem too lonely; With friends, we have greater courage to face life and grasp more happiness and happiness.

It can be said that friends are one of the foundations of our life. Writer Liang Shiqiu said in the article "Talking about Friendship": "The so-called friendship is a good relationship between people, which includes many virtues such as seclusion, appreciation, trust, tolerance and sacrifice. If it is based on friendship, other relationships such as father and son, husband and wife, and brothers can be successfully established. " This shows the importance of friendship in daily life.

However, in our impression, friends are all people who can help us, support us and give us positive effects. However, this is not always the case. Between friends, there will be some "gray characters". Not only will they help you, but they may also set you up in secret. Not only will they not care about you and protect you, but they may also hurt you; They may look kind and smile at you, but they are likely to hide their knives in their smiles.

In life, we need to pay attention to honesty, trust and understand each other, and be honest with each other, but we also need to have a good sense of self-protection and know how to prevent external injuries. We need to guard against some bad friends in time. If we trust them easily and treat them as people to talk to, then you may be hurt, cheated by friends and used by friends.

We often say: "the people closest to you often hurt you the most;" The people you trust most often hurt you the most. "This is actually a very common phenomenon in life. Sometimes your friends will use this intimate relationship to make trouble for you, and they will also use this friendship to attack and hurt you. Between friends, there will be black sheep, duplicitous people, troublemakers, traitors and selfish people. In the face of these "bad" friends, we need to guard against and fight back in time. We need to be as cautious and rational as possible, and we need to pick out those friends who have problems so as not to hurt you.

Don't let friends around you hurt you. From a realistic point of view, this book exposes all kinds of bad friends and problem friends, and exposes the hypocrisy of those problem friends. It has important guiding significance and reference value when we make friends, and can also effectively urge and warn us to pay attention to the way of making friends and distinguish between true and false friends. Only in this way can we effectively avoid falling into the trap of friends and face friends with a more mature attitude. At the same time, this book also puts forward some suggestions on how to communicate with friends, which is very effective in improving and enhancing the relationship between friends.