Don't be too kind, pay more attention.

Don't be too kind, because there are always people who use your kindness to hurt you. The more you accommodate, the more others push their luck; If you go backwards, more people will be wiped out; If you forgive, others will be more unscrupulous; If you are soft-hearted, others will be greedy.

The greatest evil of human nature is to consume the kindness of others. Because if you are kind, have no bottom line and no principles, then no one will take you seriously and treat you as a sick cat, a cash cow and a gun.

When someone asks you for help, I expect you to help me. As a result, you only helped seven points I don't think you are generous with convenience. I think you owe him three points instead of thanking you. Many human grievances are caused by this.

Therefore, the human heart is sinister and the world is difficult. These days, you won't refuse, you won't be cruel, and you are doomed to be unpopular.

People should not be kind easily, but be careful, because others are not necessarily kind! Most people in the world like to pinch soft persimmons, because your weakness will only make you a weapon for others to hurt you. Most honest people are losers, because if they have no mind, they will only get hurt silently. Sometimes you always choose to forgive others' begging when it is clear that the other person has done something inappropriate. Choose to bear all the grievances yourself.

In order to survive in today's society, we can only guarantee that we will not harm people, but we must guard against people and not be too kind. Some people say that being too kind is cowardice.

I'm impressed.

Kindness without a bottom line will only be regarded by others as the capital to bully you. When you deal with the world with kindness, don't forget to bring your own fangs, otherwise others will think you are weak and easy to bully. A friend said that my misfortune is that I regard blind tolerance as a kind of kindness, which will only give others more opportunities to hurt me.

My parents often taught me to be kind to others, but at that time, in junior high school, a friend who was playing very well framed me, and the teacher had a bad impression on me. He looks at me sideways almost every day, crying in his heart every day. No matter how wronged he is, he always tells himself that it doesn't matter. Now it is no longer so easy to be bullied, and our kindness must have a moderate edge.

The result of infinite kindness is mostly your own pain, and it is not a bad thing to learn badly. Only by saving yourself can you achieve others. Kindness requires choice, just like making friends, blindly tolerating and accepting others' push your luck. Kindness is reserved for those who deserve to be treated.

Compromise for a long time will help others. If you help too much, you will tolerate traitors. Accustomed to sympathy, you will lose yourself! Your persistence will be easily disappointed; Your concern will be ignored; Your contribution will be regarded as dispensable; A sincere heart is trampled because others may not care at all.

A person's kindness is innate. There are many dishonest people in real life, and these dishonest people will gradually have bad ideas about kind people.

Therefore, a kind person must have a bottom line. If someone touches your bottom line, you have to give him something to pay attention to in the future. I don't want to think about people who push their luck.

If you turn yourself into a donkey, don't complain about others riding you. Everything is enough, and if you are too kind, you will lack your mind; Excessive humility will make you weak.