Do you want me to help with my brother’s family matters?

Everything must have a measure. Your husband has done a good enough job, you have your own home, and you can help others without affecting your own life. It's normal for your father to come and stay at your house. But you can't help everything with your brother's family. If you want to help, you must get your husband's permission. This is your joint family. Respect each other's living habits, and the same goes for both husband and wife. Don't let too many household chores affect your relationship as a couple. You care too much about your parents' family, which is wrong. Your brother is married and has a family. With a wife and children, he can take on that responsibility. It is normal for him to suffer a little and be a little tired. As for the children, you don’t have to worry about them. If the living environment is worse, the children will be stronger. You are now a woman, just live a good life and take care of your own family. Don't worry about one thing and not the other. It's not worth it. Cherish the happiness in your hands, make reasonable arrangements, and cultivate the relationship between husband and wife. This is the most important thing after marriage. I hope you can figure it out soon and live a happy life!