Changing yourself also means changing your views on your partner and relationships. For love and married life, the higher the expectations, the greater the gap and the more conflicts. Some people say:

Changing yourself also means changing your views on your partner and relationships. For love and married life, the higher the expectations, the greater the gap and the more conflicts. Some people say: "The reason why men live easier and happier than women is because they have many qualities that women do not have. They are more forgetful than women." They retain the instinct of children to forget. It's a big deal. After a sleep, you are reborn. Women think that they have given everything, but they have not won the cheers and applause of men. However, these stinky men actually take all this for granted, without a word of gentleness and consideration, and deliberately ignore and treat them with indifference. Day and night she recalled all the details of her kindness to the man, feeling that all her efforts were in vain. How can I swallow this breath? As a result, fierceness, conflict, and revenge have become commonplace, and this is where stupid husbands and resentful wives arise. 3. Break through difficulties. Faced with complaints and dissatisfaction from your lover, what a man has to do is to learn to be grateful, learn to share, learn to understand, learn to praise, and learn to "give me peaches and repay with Qiong Yao." The more aggrieved, sad and emotional your woman appears in front of you, it means the more she cares about you. There is an innate maternal love factor in her bones, and she is busy worrying about her family and you day and night. This is a kind of devotion of love. She is willing to bear the burden, but she also hopes that someone will share it with her, and she also longs to be recognized and grateful by her lover. In her heart, the most basic love needs are actually your care, understanding, respect, favor, approval and comfort for her. The first way a man can successfully meet a woman's needs is to communicate. Listening to a woman's feelings without getting angry or frustrated, so that she can express herself with a sense of security, is the best gift to her. Faced with the indifference and accusations of your lover, women might as well selectively forget like men, forget all the good things you do to men and the bad things men do to you. In the future, if you travel lightly, you will be more peaceful and comfortable psychologically. Because if you don't remember the good things about him, you won't be full of expectations; if you don't remember the bad things about him, you won't be resentful. Women should learn to lower their expectations for men mentally, try to curb their own imbalances and resentments, and then give the other party some kind encouragement, which may lead to unexpected gains. How to repair a broken marriage 2 How to save a marriage? 1. Keep yourself calm. 2. Understand the needs of the other party. When everyone deals with a problem, most of the time they think about it from their own perspective. What you want to satisfy is your own needs, and when your needs conflict with the other person's needs, or the other person's needs are not met, conflicts will arise between the two people. Therefore, if you want to ease the relationship between the two parties, you must understand the needs of the other party and satisfy the other party from what the other party needs. This will naturally ease the relationship between you. 3. Communicate deeply with the other party. Communication and chatting are different. Chatting is just about expressing your thoughts and basically forgetting them. Communication is about making two people understand each other, so that they can better resolve conflicts between them. Therefore, after you have thought clearly about the problems in your marriage, you need to communicate with the other party. If the two of you work together, you can repair your marriage faster. 4. Re-cultivate feelings. After you have a conflict, even if you reconcile, the relationship between you is still hurt, and it will not be able to go back to the beginning immediately. Therefore, in order for two people to get along as before, it is necessary to cultivate the relationship between the husband and wife, increase the time the husband and wife spend together, and increase the interest in life. Then the relationship between the husband and wife will gradually heat up and then be completely repaired. After a marriage breaks down, many people want to save their marriage, but not everyone can save it. The reason is that you did not use the correct method. When you master the correct method of saving, you will naturally know what to do. How to save the other party.