What makes a good daughter-in-law? Is there any definition of a good daughter-in-law?

I think a good daughter-in-law must first be able to understand the "old ideas" of the elderly.

When I sold health care products in the past, my customers were almost all elderly people. Now that living standards have improved, their sons and daughters can support them. They usually have nothing to do. They mostly buy groceries and cook. Many times, they like to chat with me and complain.

There is an elderly couple. Both of their daughters are married and living a happy life. The youngest son has also found a partner and is preparing to get married. When the woman went to meet the man’s parents, the elderly couple had various opinions on the prospective daughter-in-law. Everything is satisfactory, and there are no problems with the betrothal gift or anything else. But the woman said that she did not want children after getting married because she was afraid of pain, so she wanted to adopt a pet dog as her own child!

Of course the old man would not agree, and his impression of this prospective daughter-in-law was greatly reduced. Even if I am born in the 90s, I cannot accept it. Doesn’t this make my family “unprecedented”? The two old men were very angry. The dog could be raised as a son or a grandson, but the family line could not be passed down from generation to generation, and they could not start calling themselves grandparents. This made two old people who wanted to have grandchildren deep in thought... They felt that dogs can only accompany you for a while but not for a lifetime. People will get sick when they get old and sick. Can a dog bring you medicine and cook?

Personally, I think this is not a good wife. A good wife can understand the old thinking of her parents-in-law!

Whether she is willing to help with housework is also the criterion for whether she is a good daughter-in-law. Nowadays, most girls are pampered by their families, and many of them do not know how to do housework, so there are more and more boys who can cook.

My best friend is a nice, gentle girl. She is a bit lazy and doesn’t know how to cook. Her husband and mother-in-law cook all their meals! But she can do some other things, such as buying and washing vegetables, washing clothes and mopping the floor. When her parents-in-law are tired, she will bring them tea and water. She will not feel that she is losing face at all! So their family is happy and happy, and her parents-in-law like her very much. Even if she doesn't care about cooking, they still love her very much! I think this is a good daughter-in-law!

Nowadays, on TV and in life, there are many girls who do nothing at home before getting married and still do nothing after getting married. They sit and eat melon seeds and watch TV, and ask their parents-in-law to prepare meals. When we go to eat, the old man will mop the floor and never help with anything!

There was a daughter-in-law who had a quarrel with her mother-in-law because of this matter. My mother-in-law said that you should help me a little and make it easier for me. This daughter-in-law said, I never have to work at home. My mother has raised me for more than 20 years and has never asked me to do any work. Why should I serve you when I marry you? I wasn't raised by you, I have to spend the money I earn on your family, and I will continue the family lineage for you in the future, why should I do this!

As a bystander, I think that knowing how to share housework is also a criterion for being a good daughter-in-law. What do you think?

Let’s talk about how to be a good daughter-in-law. Although your parents-in-law are not your biological parents, I personally think that you should give them some living expenses every month or buy them some clothes and daily necessities during the Chinese New Year. No matter how much you give them, it is still a little thoughtful!

Many people now live with their parents, and their parents usually buy or grow their food. As the elderly get older, almost all of them have no job or income.

You give them some money, be it three hundred or five hundred. Let the elderly go out on the street and have some money in their pockets. They can buy whatever they want to eat!

I have seen on TV that some daughters-in-law are very generous in eating, drinking and entertaining, but they never give a penny to their parents-in-law! I think this is a question of filial piety. Filial piety comes first. If a daughter-in-law does not have a filial piety, is she still a good daughter-in-law?

I hope that after reading my words, you can occasionally give your parents and parents-in-law some living expenses! As they get older, they may not be able to help you financially, but that doesn’t mean they don’t want to!

My grandparents are 70 years old this year. I am the only daughter in the family and usually work outside. One time I came home after a long time and saw two or three holes in their clothes. At that time, I had to I feel really sad. I gave them living expenses, but they were reluctant to use it. They said they would save money to give me a gold ring when I get married... Old people save money and don't spend money arbitrarily. I hope you have parents and in-laws. , and occasionally give them some living expenses! Three hundred and five hundred is really nothing to people nowadays. If you eat a steak, the next time you eat a steak, the restaurant may cost two, three, or three or four hundred. Go there less once or twice and save some money for the elderly!

Whether you educate your children may also be the criterion for judging a good daughter-in-law.

Some people think that children cannot be effective without spanking, while others think that children need verbal education and spanking is not good. Everyone’s education methods are different, so I can’t judge! But some people practice "uneducative" behavior towards their children, and I think this is a bit problematic!

My uncle’s daughter-in-law is very careless about her children! The whole family was eating, and the child was flipping around in the dishes with chopsticks. She didn't know what to turn, but she didn't care. Her parents-in-law told the child not to do this, and no one would dare to eat it if you turned the dishes. She couldn't bear to listen and threw her chopsticks. She felt that her parents-in-law were targeting her. She gave birth to the child and it was her business to educate him!

Do you think she is a good daughter-in-law in this situation? At least, I don’t think this is what a good daughter-in-law should do! A good daughter-in-law, you should stop your children, because there are more than ten people at the table. If you turn over the dishes, no one will dare to eat the dishes. You should tell your children that this is wrong, that this is a bad habit, and it is also disrespectful to others. polite. If she doesn't correct herself, punish her or something like that... This way, our relatives at the same table won't think that the child is uneducated, and even the child's mother is uneducated! He is also so excessive to his parents-in-law, showing no mercy at all! Can this still be a good wife?

What makes a good daughter-in-law? Respect your parents-in-law and elders, be able to understand them, share housework for them, be able to support your husband and educate your children, and truly love your family.

Being able to make peace when the parents-in-law quarrel, being able to take care of the parents-in-law as one’s own parents when they are sick, being able to educate the children carefully when they do something wrong, etc. These are what a good daughter-in-law should do!

Many people say that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not easy to get along with. In fact, many times it is the current daughter-in-law who is "too awesome". My mother-in-law and I are very good, she cares about me, and I can care about her; she truly treats me like a daughter, and I can truly respect her as my own mother! I don't cook well, so she usually cooks and I wash the vegetables. The two of us talk nonsense. If you are in a bad mood due to other things, the two of you have a tacit understanding not to speak, and they will chat after the anger subsides...

You don’t have to be a perfect wife, but you must make the family harmonious. ! Only when the family is harmonious can everything be prosperous!