My father-in-law scolded me, but my mother-in-law pretended not to understand. What should I do if my husband is weak? Or how can I protect myself? !

As long as you are self-reliant, no one will look down on you, and you can also stand at home. It's not who spends more or less money, but that you look down on others and do everything wrong. You feel a little desperate to say that now. The solution is not only divorce, but also how to balance. Whether your husband is sympathetic or loving, you and you are husband and wife. If he never blames you and never looks at you coldly, then I think he is already a good husband. You say you have no love, but you can't create love. It's really not easy to be a husband and wife. You can't give up so easily Think about what you can do to support yourself. With their own income, people don't think too much! Really, women also want to build themselves, no matter what your situation is now! As long as you live, everyone's conditions are the same. Although your road is relatively difficult, you can't escape what you should face. Why can't you make yourself happy? Your husband is used to that kind of life, so he can't change. Just pretend he's farting. And your grandmother, if not that kind of person, isn't there a war at home every day? She is also defending a home! Although there is something wrong with the method, what can women do in those days? Did you fight with him? But is it necessary to hit him? ! Besides, your husband already knows what kind of person he is, and he didn't blindly trust his father but not you, did he? Then what else do you dislike? Why must it be right or wrong? What is the final result? Is there another day of peace? Being a daughter is not easy, being a wife is not easy, and being a wife is even more difficult! But everyone has to go through this. Try to do it calmly. Don't say that your family can't help you, you have to rely on yourself after giving birth! I believe you can, because your tone reveals your ambition, but it is wrong to use it in this respect. Change it, live for yourself, wonderful! Of course, it is best to have the support of your husband. How can you say that you will live longer than your mother-in-law? You will depend on each other. It's not that you have to rely on him, but that you have a place to breathe and rest. How to build it is up to you. Believe in yourself! You can definitely do your best!