What are the skills, attitudes, tone and content of talking with different people?

It is very important to communicate sincerely with people. Easy-going people are always very likable. Don't be too arrogant or too sensitive to make people think that you are shrewd and calculating because everyone likes approachable people. No one likes a boaster, so you don't have to show off your favorite things or advantages everywhere to arouse others' disgust. A steady and decent way of getting along will make you get more people's favor. By observing other people's dressing style and behavior habits, you can more or less judge their living environment and lifestyle, and thus more or less judge some topics that he may be interested in. For example, a lady may prefer fashion topics and some problems in her daily life, and she may also like some books or movies that suit her taste, depending on whether she is quiet or active. Lively people talk more about fashion topics or sports health, while introverted girls talk more about quiet topics. Only topics that conform to other people's personalities are easier to open other people's hearts. Boys may prefer some current hot topics, or cars or games, or some problems encountered at home. In-depth ones can also talk about bottlenecks encountered at work and career planning prospects. Talking more about promising topics will make others feel more positive, meaningful and positive with you. No one likes to be with people who are boring or have no ideas all day. But you can't be too ambitious to make people think you are fake. Just slowly cut into a relaxed chat. Skills are just a tool. If properly used, paying too much attention to skills will lose the meaning and sincerity of communicating with people. Don't say too many words that go against your inner thoughts, which will be very tiring. Just properly guide others' words and mobilize others' enthusiasm for chatting with you. Get along with leaders, elders or other people with different interests, all of them should be just right, don't be too high-profile, do things properly, master your heart when you speak and do things, and don't be angry or overjoyed, so that others will think you are more reliable and willing to get along with you. Finally, it is very important not to be too sensitive when getting along with others. Take the unintentional injury or difficult personality characteristics that others have not noticed as others' unkindness or dislike you. Perhaps you think too much, and you can avoid people who are not used to getting along with you a little, because it may not be your fault or his fault, but you may all have different personalities or behaviors. People you don't like don't have to please them deliberately, because maybe it's not that he is bad, but that your lifestyle makes you unable to accept his behavior. Instead of worrying about how to make the relationship better, we should keep our distance so that both of us can have a chance to catch our breath. Finally, thank you for reading, I hope it can help you!

Additional: Don't talk to someone who is cold, because he is likely to be timid or defensive. You can start by caring for him and doing more things to help or sympathize with him, which will make him get a good impression on you and slowly open his heart.