A word of refusing a friend to borrow money

First, I took money from my pocket, but I raised an "enemy". Don't borrow money from others easily unless you have to, and don't lend money to others easily. The biggest danger of lending money to people is not to lose money, but to lose love forever. Doing good will offend people. Therefore, "watching people cook" is a must.

Second, if you don't pay back the money, you cheat your friends. Some people think that borrowing money is also a skill. Why should we pay it back by ourselves? Such people don't deserve friends at all. If you have such a person around you, you must stay away from him. A person can be so shameless that he doesn't even deserve friends.

Third, borrowers are afraid to borrow money, and they will not lend or pay it back. Sometimes it's not that I don't want to borrow it. It's just that some people obviously don't have any income, and you really don't know what they can do to pay you back.

Fourth, you are a good friend when you borrow money, an uncle after you borrow money, and a benefactor when you pay back money. People who usually lend money to others remember that the borrower has long forgotten; People who lend money to others are embarrassed to ask for it, and people who borrow money pretend not to pay it back. Every time we meet, people who borrow money are uneasy, but people who borrow money are extremely calm. When Dade's conscience finds out that he has paid back the money, you have to thank him.

Never lend money to an unfamiliar person, because he can't borrow money from an acquaintance. Some people, although you are good friends at some point, have been out of touch for a long time after all, and their feelings are rusty. At this time, he suddenly contacted you to borrow money from you, so you should be careful. Why not borrow it from people around him? Someone will ask you if you want to borrow it.

6. If the borrower is afraid of being borrowed again, he will lose both money and people if he is not careful. If a person borrows money from you and doesn't pay it back, he won't be grateful because you lent him money for the first time, but will resent because you refused it for the second time. This is probably the so-called pay is not proportional to the harvest.