What's it like to be spoiled by the whole family?

Nowadays, many families only have one child, so there will be six adults around one child. When the children want to drink water, everyone is busy pouring water for them. When children want toys, parents don't buy them. As a result, grandparents bought them, which made the mothers very helpless.

What will a spoiled child look like in the future?

1, self-care ability is not strong. A friend is sick at home and wants to drink some hot water. As a result, her daughter can't even use a hot water kettle. A child who has been spoiled for a long time will feel deeply dependent on his family. Anyway, some parents will do it for me, resulting in children not even knowing some basic common sense.

2, will develop a child's selfish personality. Because Xiao Xuan was in poor health since childhood, his family always gave him everything he wanted, so he became a bully. Once he went out with his grandmother and took a fancy to a toy on the roadside. As a result, if she didn't buy it, Xiao Xuan would punch and kick her and even pull her hair to make her compromise.

3, it will cause obstacles to children's interpersonal relationships. Because of selfish personality, children habitually take themselves as the center, thinking that all people should be around them, ignoring that friends also need mutual understanding and care, so others will slowly leave him when they get along with him, leading to chaos in the interpersonal circle.

Parents must know that children's dependence generally comes from their parents' "arrangements". Every child's growth can not be separated from the influence of family environment and parents' teaching, so in order to cultivate children's self-care ability and mental health, parents must be willing to let go. Only by bravely trying will we know how to cherish what we have now.

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