Life is a compromise.

Marriage is not a game. Whether you are strong or weak, whether you lose or win. In its rules, there are losers and winners. A perfect marriage is a kind of mutual compromise and tolerance, and it is a highly tacit understanding of the way of thinking, the way of treating people and even the taste of food. Any cover-up can't escape each other's eyes.

Life is a compromise? A line from the movie "Silver Empire".

After watching this movie, what impressed me the most was this line-when the heroine in the movie was full of despair about life, one of her friends who was also troubled by life comforted her. Such fashionable language appeared in a film set in19th century China. If the person who said this sentence is a China person wearing a robe and mandarin jacket, it is estimated that it will hit half the audience in the cinema, but fortunately her friend is a blonde foreign women.

Whether this line is appropriate or not in this movie, it must be more classic than the movie itself.

Of course, life is not just composed of compromise, it contains too many elements, such as struggle, retreat, effort, depression and so on. But there is no doubt that what makes life run through our life must be the kind of element that plays the role of adhesive in life-compromise.

Skip the period when we grew up, let's cut our memories to the time when we first joined the work. When you face a strange face and feel the coldness, suspicion and even hostility in your eyes, should you put away your so-called personality, hide your wayward and unruly heart, and then melt the coldness in your colleagues' eyes with the most sincere smile and the hottest eyes? Do you think you are a genius and have to praise the mediocre people in your eyes? This is a compromise. This is not the first lesson we learned in life, but our real life begins here.

With your own talent, you can stand out among your colleagues. The leader recognizes you and puts you in a management position. In the face of heavy work and colleagues who have never had cooperation experience, how do you get their support and how do you motivate them to work hard? This requires running-in, and this running-in process is actually a process of collision, temptation, compromise and communication. In this process, due to differences in ideology, working methods and lack of cooperation experience, there will be frictions and even conflicts, but these frictions are by no means directed at you. This is just an inevitable process. In this process, you are observing and testing them, and they are also observing and testing you, observing your character, ability and ability to control your work.

How to deal with it? It is not simply to oppress people by force and make them completely adapt to your way. That kind of retarded management will make you lonely, and you won't give up on yourself and follow their ideas, but on the basis of mutual sincerity, you will finally get to know each other and live in harmony.

What do you need? -compromise with each other. Of course, this compromise must be based on your principles and the rationality of your work.

When you get through the running-in period safely and conquer them with your wisdom and personality charm, you will find that it is not majesty or power, but a reasonable compromise. It helps you a lot and makes you recognized by your colleagues.

When we have experienced the sweetness of love and walked into the hall of marriage, you may find that the girl who made you very fond of coquetry in "Innocent Girl" before marriage suddenly turned into a long-winded and charming woman who bored you very much. The big boy who was handsome and cool before marriage and had a great personality that you admired suddenly became a sloppy and grumpy man that you could not accept. Will you regret your choice?

Perhaps, most of us are taking a chance in marriage, because young people didn't know what they really wanted at that time, and even if they did, they couldn't arrange their own destiny, so when we plunged into a promising marriage, the changes mentioned above may disappoint you.

There are only three forms of marriage: either you adapt to him, or he adapts to you, or adapts to each other. If we can't do it, we will be scarred or parted ways, which is definitely not what we want. Therefore, at this time, if there is still love between each other, if this family still has a reason to exist, then it is time for Black Powder to make a compromise. Weak compromise power, lazy compromise diligence, silent compromise wordy. When these compromises become a habit, marriage will gradually get better.

Marriage is not a game. Whether you are strong or weak, whether you lose or win. In its rules, there are losers and winners. A perfect marriage is a kind of mutual compromise and tolerance, and it is a highly tacit understanding of the way of thinking, the way of treating people and even the taste of food. Any cover-up can't escape each other's eyes.

Compromise is everywhere, just like now, when you patiently read my article, it is also a compromise, a compromise on messy words.