Because of the house, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law fell out and quarreled during the Chinese New Year. Mother-in-law: I am partial. What can you do?

New Year's Day 29, paste Spring Festival couplets.

My husband wrote all my Spring Festival couplets. He bought red paper in advance and wrote one for each of his relatives at home. My mother-in-law said that because my husband wrote Spring Festival couplets, my family saved hundreds of dollars by writing Spring Festival couplets every year.

I calculated with my mother-in-law, in fact, each family only needs 30 yuan to buy Spring Festival couplets a year. In my opinion, there is really no need for a family to have a conflict over this 30 yuan.

However, there are contradictions in the countryside about this 35 yuan.

One of my husband's neighbors has two sons. She lives with her eldest son, while her youngest son lives alone. Every Spring Festival, old people buy Spring Festival couplets for two families. Two years ago, the old man bought money for the little wife. The old man said, "I just bought it for you. You should pay for it yourself. "

Her daughter-in-law asked her, "Can't you go out of your hometown?" You want to buy it for her, you have to buy it for me. All sons. Why are you so biased? "

The old lady said, "This is different. I bought it for her only for myself. We live in a home. "

Between two people, because of this matter, they quarrel almost every year. The old man thinks the little wife is too unfilial. Kannika nimtragol thinks the old man is too eccentric.

In fact, it is only a matter of tens of dollars, but both of them have to fight for their own "reasons."

In order to punish her daughter-in-law, her mother-in-law prepared Spring Festival couplets, but asked her daughter-in-law to buy them for 35 yuan.

On the 29th of this year, kannika nimtragol went to the old man's house to get Spring Festival couplets as usual. However, the old man said, "35 yuan, you can't let me buy it for you every year." I am an old man and it is not easy to make money. "

Kannika nimtragol said, "I have no money. Give it to your son if you can. "

The old man made up his mind this time, and the little daughter-in-law didn't want money, but she wouldn't give it. She said to her neighbor, "I'll keep it for next year."

Kannika nimtragol refused to let go, quarreled with her mother-in-law in the yard and smashed all the eggs she had just bought. Women always love to dig up old scores when they quarrel. Daughter-in-law stood at the gate of the courtyard, crying and shouting: "I have never seen such an eccentric parent who posted Spring Festival couplets every year. She gave money to the old man, but she just didn't leave our house." Everyone's children can be seen when she goes out and taken care of every day. My two children are so old. Has she been there?

If a parent gives his son 35 yuan, he will give it to me. I'm not that unreasonable. You ask the boss to pay 35 yuan, and I will pay 35 yuan. I won't give a penny if the boss doesn't give it to me. What makes you so weird? "

The old man is also full of grievances. When she saw that her daughter-in-law deliberately gave her no face, she made a scene outside the hospital and let her neighbors see her jokes. Throwing caution to the wind, she stood at the door and scolded her daughter-in-law: "I am just partial." What happened? I am so angry with you. " I'll stick with my boss from now on, that is, I won't help you look after the children, that is, it won't cost you a penny. I am like this. See if your husband can support me in the future. "

When I saw this contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the countryside, I never understood one thing:

Why men are completely rejected by two women. It seems that the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, that is, two people can't get along, and it has nothing to do with the man in the middle.

Just like the husband of this kannika nimtragol, his wife and mother are like this, he is always indifferent.

The most terrible thing is that this kannika nimtragol went on to say, "You are partial. You are happy that your son is divorced. Your son and I divorced. It's all your fault. He has such a mother and I divorced him. "

Then this kannika nimtragol went back to her mother's house on the ninth day of the Lunar New Year.

Our neighbors, including my mother-in-law, advised the elderly: "It's the New Year, what about your 35 yuan?" She went back. On the first day of New Year's greetings, your little son will not be a joke. "

Then, my mother-in-law said something like this: "My son was unlucky for eight generations and married such a daughter-in-law. If she doesn't come back, let my son and grandson eat with me I can't see her, but I'm still happy. The children are at school anyway. If she doesn't come back, don't come back and see if our family can live without her. "

How many old people and daughter-in-law have become enemies, but they don't think about their son's lack in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

What is particularly puzzling is why this mother-in-law doesn't ask her youngest son for money. Why does she have to ask her daughter-in-law for money? According to my mother-in-law, sometimes men get Spring Festival couplets and old people don't want money. But when she meets her daughter-in-law, she will mention it to her.

Isn't the son's money different from the daughter-in-law's?

Why do you have to ask your daughter-in-law for money? And why can't men take the initiative to give their mothers money to solve this problem completely?

He knew that his wife and mother would quarrel about it every year. Why doesn't he ask for Spring Festival couplets and buy lucky money for his mother?

But if this person stood up, this quarrel would not have happened. But as long as the old man and his son talk about it, there will be no quarrel. But the old man didn't look for his son, only his daughter-in-law and asked her to pay.

What's her purpose?

What she wants is not only the 35 yuan, but also the obedience of kannika nimtragol. She wants her daughter-in-law to know that she shouldn't spend a penny on them. She gave them money, and the kannika nimtragol will pay it back.

It is true that the old man has such an idea. After all, children have their own homes after marriage, and they have to bear their own living expenses. But one thing, the old man has two sons.