What should I do if my boyfriend’s pursuit of perfection makes me troubled?

Be brave enough to express your inner distress.

No one is perfect. This blind pursuit of perfection will really make people unbearable. There is no good way. You can only tell your boyfriend about your inner troubles and express your emotions. Let him consider your feelings. This couple should be getting closer as they get along with each other, right? This is not something that can be tolerated. You cannot endure it forever.

You should have a good talk with your boyfriend. A man can ask himself to pursue perfection, but he cannot force others to change himself, so you should talk to him seriously and let him know. You have tried your best to cooperate perfectly, but you have reached a limit and you can no longer cooperate with him. It is very hard for you to be with him like this now, and you are too distressed inside. If he truly loves you, he will truly love you. He cares about you. He must be able to face himself, re-examine himself, and discover his own problems. His character has caused trouble for you, and it can also be said to be trouble between you. If he does, he will definitely change. .

If he still insists on himself and cannot change a little for you, it only means that your position in his heart is not important. It can be said that he loves himself more than he loves you. He is a self-centered person. A centered person is not worthy of you continuing to tolerate him or continue to accommodate him. You think you can't stand his character now. If you don't let go now, you will be even more unbearable in the future. Now that you know the result, it's better to let go. , reduce the harm, which is good for both of you. Maybe your departure can help him realize his mistake and become good enough to come back again.

When two people get along, various problems will definitely arise. If there are problems, they must be raised and everyone can solve them together. Otherwise, they will have to break up as soon as the problems come together.