How to say "no" when you are excluded, abused and PUA in the workplace?

First of all, what is the concept of PUA? PUA in the workplace is a way for some unscrupulous bosses to control their employees. The first move is to constantly deny employees. The second trick is to keep drawing cakes, which is also my most annoying part. The third measure is to make employees feel that it is a blessing to enter the company. Generally speaking, fresh graduates are easily controlled by PUA. But anyway, I taught myself some psychological knowledge in college. Found the PUA tendency of the boss of the first company, and then left decisively.

First of all, the boss of my first company often lashed out at us newcomers for doing nothing. No matter how hard you work, he directly said that we don't worry about our work, and it is the kind of criticism directly from our personality. Every time we submit the work content, it is a quarrel, which makes us look like born losers. There were only five people left after a month, and I left after three months. Anyway, after the chat, the remaining four people all passive Nuo Nuo to the boss Nuo Nuo.

Secondly, the second trick is to draw a cake, and then use the cake he drew to encourage us migrant workers to work hard. At first, I believed in the cakes drawn by the boss, but later I simply went in one ear and out the other. You and I are employed. As long as your salary is enough, I will help you make a cake. I earn 3000 yuan a month, why should I work overtime for free? As a post-95 generation, I have the capital to pat my ass and leave, so I am not used to you.

Finally, the third measure makes employees feel blessed to enter this company. I've seen this routine before, but I've never fallen into it. Because of an office less than 10 square meter, the boss told me that his company is much better than the outside program company. The second trick is the way to deal with it. Look at the salary. If the salary is enough, you can say whatever you want. If the salary is not enough, I fart.

In the face of PUA in the workplace, the easiest group to recruit people is the newly graduated student party. Just entering the society, I don't understand the sinister nature of society. I am often fooled by my boss. Run when you find something wrong, and don't even think about asking for a penny from home after graduation. If the family can afford it, it's best to provide it for you for another year.