The "war situation" is tragic! How does it feel to be rejected on a blind date?

In our daily life, if it is not necessary, I believe that few people are willing to embark on the road of blind date, whether it is boys or girls, it is estimated that there is deep exclusion.

Maybe it's because I'm not old enough for blind date, and I don't quite understand the thoughts of those blind date people. Anyway, in my opinion, I think blind date is a way for parents and elders to choose the other half for themselves. Because the people who can usually date themselves are carefully selected by them, the elders are very satisfied with their looks, work and economic strength. In that case, let's arrange to meet. But I really reject this kind of behavior in my heart. In my subconscious, I always feel that my other half needs to find it by myself, instead of letting me choose after they have chosen it.

The meeting with the blind date is basically awkward. After all, it's hard for two people who have never met before to know each other at the same table and tell a stranger a lot about themselves. Moreover, if a person is not careful, he won't know what he said wrong, which may leave a bad impression on the other party, so the two of them will definitely blow up and will be punished after returning home.

Another sadness of blind date is that the other person doesn't like himself. Although we usually meet after we have a certain understanding, it does not rule out that sometimes there is a certain gap between meeting and thinking, and at this time we may feel disgusted with each other.

In fact, in my opinion, the main reason why people generally don't like each other is because of their looks. After all, two people I just met don't know much about personality habits, and looks bring people the most intuitive experience, so sometimes they will be disgusted after seeing each other's looks. Of course, the rejected person must be very unhappy. No matter what reason he was rejected, people always look down on himself, which is definitely a blow to this person.