I don't want to destroy each other's family, but we love each other so much. How can I let go of this fruitless extramarital affair?

what can I say? Love each other is also a kind of fate. In today's society, there are too many situations like you. As long as you don't destroy your respective families, I feel that there should be no big problem. But with the change of time and environment, you said that it is impossible not to affect the family, and there are certain unfavorable factors involved. Some of them are different. When they are warm, they return to their respective nests and care for their lovers a hundred times more. They know that they have done something wrong to their families and want to find a psychological balance with their own actions. How long can you love each other? Either keep the status quo and don't ask about the future, or cut the gordian knot and give up this love that doesn't belong to you. In the end, this kind of love is only sad, and I only hate that this life is missed. This relationship is a fruitless result. . . . Once in this state, it's hard to extricate yourself. As for how to do it, it depends on you personally. Others can't give you attention, so you can only talk about it.