Tell me about the Wang Leehom incident.

The biggest problem in the entertainment circle these days is Wang Leehom's divorce. Wang Leehom, the star, was accused by his ex-wife Li Lianglei of cheating on her many times during her marriage, calling prostitutes, and even often humiliating her for a long time and using cold violence.

Wang Leehom abandoned his wife and had an affair in love rat, which made his "high-quality idol" run for many years collapse overnight. Major brands have terminated their contracts with him, and various media have criticized him. A star took him off, and Wang's irrefutable silence further confirmed that all his actions were true! As the saying goes, people who don't cultivate morality, can't walk steadily and can't walk far, and their morality is damaged are doomed to have no long-term stage.

Li Lianglei, as a young mother of three children, has been pregnant and raised her children for many years since she married "Tianwang". She had a good condition, and since then she has no life at all, and she has to endure her husband's infidelity and cold violence from time to time. Such a woman is really glamorous on the surface, but she is scarred inside.

Fortunately, in the end, Li Lianglei didn't submit to humiliation. She decided to be reborn and be strong for her three children. She must stand up and tear open the true face of love rat. As an example for future generations, she must defend her last dignity and self-esteem!

Marriage is a practice for women to grow up. Judging from the long article sent by Li Lianglei, she is really not simple! In this marriage, she not only has no economic initiative, but also has infinite tolerance and restraint, but she was finally abandoned mercilessly.

In real life, many women want to marry into a rich family, but countless facts have proved that it is difficult for a rich family to enter and men are unreliable. A woman's greatest nobleman is herself, and a woman's greatest tycoon is herself. As long as she is independent enough, she won't be outdone. As long as she dares to resist, she can have a complete right to speak.

A woman who is blindly attached and obedient is tantamount to lowering her social status, weakening her potential, exposing her vulnerability and incompetence, and giving others disappointment and opportunities to hurt herself. Once she meets love rat, it's only a matter of time before she runs out of money.

Not only marriage, but also the future society: without independence, people will lose all their autonomy, economic freedom, personality freedom and spiritual freedom. Without independence, nothing stands, and most people who can't learn to be independent will be humiliated and abandoned by the world.

Then what is independence? Independence means material independence, personality independence and spiritual independence. Material independence means that you have the ability to make money, have rich living conditions and are not dependent on others; Personality independence means that you have your own identity label in society and get recognition from others; Spiritual independence means that you have independent thoughts, stand and inviolable atmosphere.

Only those who achieve the above three independences can be regarded as a mature person. Independent people will not completely pin their happiness and hope on others, nor will they become poor after losing them, because they still have themselves and they have the ability to restart happiness. Only strong and independent people have the ability to reverse Gan Kun.

After marriage, many women are carried away by love, expect too much from each other, and even rely on each other completely. As a result, they lack independence, inadvertently put themselves in a weak position, giving others the opportunity to hurt and abandon themselves.

The more dependent women are, the more fragile their relationship is. How many women who are in a weak position in love are not used as tools and accessories by ungrateful men. Once bored and useless, women are abandoned without exception.

A weak person doesn't have much sense of happiness and security, because they always count on others, always sacrifice themselves, and always be infinitely tolerant ... but unfortunately, the understanding and consideration of the weak will only lead to ruthless trampling and not cherishing.

Marriage should be a mature sexual relationship, a mutual achievement and perfection of two people, not a weak dependence of one party or a strong control of the other. When a person is immature and independent, all the relationships he encounters are wrong.

The future world is cruel, and God only favors strong and independent people. A woman must first turn herself into a strongman, so as not to meet love rat! No matter whether it is marriage or other relationships, if it is not equal and if it is not mutual achievement, it is difficult for a beautiful relationship to come to the end!