Father-in-law is very annoying He said everything to your face, deliberately saying something angry with you. I didn't catch what I said when I was eating. He said I let our daughter eat meat.

First of all, he is an old man with an old concept, who thinks that his daughter-in-law is an outsider, while his daughter-in-law and son are family members and should be kind to them. Don't quarrel with your father-in-law for these things. You are a young man and can tolerate the old. Talk to your husband privately, let him persuade your father-in-law and ask him if he is dissatisfied with you, because the relationship between the two sides is not harmonious and the relationship is not good, and he often gets two slaps. The next time he says you are an outsider or something, you smile and say to him, "Grandpa, your words make me sad. I married your son, and I have to give birth to your son's fragrance in the future. Aren't you going to admit the existence of your grandson and me? " Everyone is a family. If we eat together, everyone must help each other in the future. It's not good that our family is so cold, but I treat you all as family. "

If he still wants to say something ugly, you can say it directly in front of everyone: "If you don't admit me and continue to say that I am an outsider, I will go back now and leave my husband later. I regard you as my family and want to get along well with you. I am really disappointed and desperate when you treat me like this. We don't have to get along anymore. " "

Of course, the premise is that you have done something that makes the old people angry, or you are too selfish to make the old people angry. Generally, the mother-in-law of the elders has more things to talk about, while the elderly generally find less things.

Of course, it does not rule out that the old man himself is a person who can't speak, speaks frankly and doesn't look.

Secondly, don't be a stingy person.