What kind of mentality is a woman who likes to lie?

What kind of mentality is a woman who likes to lie?

I think lies are lies after all. Of course, the way of speaking is improper, and it often has the following four manifestations:

1. Because eyes are the windows to the soul, she dare not look you in the eye when she lies. Therefore, once a person lies to you, her eyes will wander and she won't dare to look directly at you. When you find your woman and ask her a sharp question, she will answer your question. However, you can tell from her eyes whether he is telling the truth or lying.

2, the language is inconsistent, this person must have lied, because as long as she tells a lie, she will make up thousands of lies, but sometimes what she says is inconsistent, which can also confirm that she is lying.

If you doubt, she will find a witness to prove her innocence, so she will move out others to testify for herself in front of you. And the witness she moved out must be her confidant, and it must be discussed below, so you can't trust this witness.

4. Many people don't have the experience of lying, so when she lies, her face will be red and her heart will beat, and she won't look you in the eye. It can also be seen from her blushing that she is lying.

Therefore, when a woman lies, her heart is uncertain and confused. I don't know if you believe what she said. Therefore, her performance will be that her eyes are too bright to look straight, her face is red, and she doesn't talk back and forth, which also reflects her guilty and uncertain mentality when lying.

I'm glad to answer this question.

First, lack of self-confidence.

Self-confidence is the key to supporting a person's honesty. Without self-confidence, some people will support their self-confidence with lies.

For example, you don't have that ability at all. In order to prevent others from gossiping, you will prove your ability with lies. If you really let her (him) do it, you will hear all kinds of excuses and reasons. If you meet, you still feel very reasonable and believe it.

And confident people can't do it if they can't, and they can't refuse if they can. Even if they don't have this ability, self-confidence has overcome themselves.

In the final analysis, it is beautiful and empty.

The second is vanity.

Everyone has vanity, especially some lesbians, which may be stronger than gay men.

This can be seen at a glance through the reunion of classmates that I haven't seen for many years.

Sitting at a table, no one wants others to know that they are unhappy, and they don't want to lose their identity and chain in front of their old classmates.

What can we do? We can only slap our faces and pretend to be fat, and we have to bite the bullet and raise them. This is psychological self-comfort.

But there is no way. People live in a materialistic society and compare with each other. Who wants to lie?

Because you are telling the truth, what you see is different, what you hear is different, and what you say when you communicate is different.

Long live understanding!

The third is to hide your own shortcomings.

Everyone wants to hide their shortcomings and keep a perfect image.

Lesbians, in particular, want others to look elegant in speech, manners and looks, that is, elegant in speech and theory.

In order not to let others discover their shortcomings and deficiencies, they sometimes lie to maintain their self-esteem and establish their own image.

This also needs to be understood. See through but not expose. If it is exposed, the beautiful atmosphere will be gone.

The fourth is to maintain the image of a lady.

Everyone has ID, ego and superego.

Lesbians don't want to hear people say that they are not gentle and virtuous, and they don't want to hear the word bitch.

Sometimes in order to shape the superego, I have to hide my id and myself to maintain the image of a lady.

It is sometimes a lie to say what is good for a person and love others, like a lamb.

In short, the liar's mentality is not very good, which is roughly the above categories. Besides, they have explored the "three views" and personality, but they just lied. It's no big deal.

White lies can save people from fire and water, and hateful lies can send people into the abyss.

Better lie less.

Thank you for your concern!

A woman who likes to lie, she is born a liar.

He thinks he is smarter than others, and everyone falls in love with his words.

To tell the truth, this kind of woman is harder to be firm than going to heaven, and she can't find a word of truth from her mouth.

There is a woman who is almost seventy years old this year. She was nicknamed "White Mouse". Because she has never told the truth for decades and is very smooth, she has been nicknamed like this.

When I first got married in this place, people around me envied this woman's intelligence, beautiful speech and understanding, and praised her as a man's blessing, and married a woman with a beautiful mouth and a glib mouth like a bug. In-laws smiled from ear to ear.

But the fox will show its tail one day. Time flies, and several years have passed. The worm's mouth finally showed its true colors. Besides saying something that makes people feel comfortable and dressing up, she is a lazy and greedy flower cat. My mother-in-law became her personal maid and served her for decades.

A few years ago, my mother-in-law was paralyzed by madness and was locked in a woodshed in the yard. She never carries a bowl of rice or a mouthful of water. If a neighbor visits, she goes to her mother-in-law for a show. Once, my mother-in-law's niece came to see her. At lunch, she knelt down to feed her mother-in-law and moved her niece to tears. She praised her sister-in-law for her filial piety and cleverness and gave her 1000 yuan. My niece grabbed the bowl and said that she worked hard to support her mother-in-law.

No one praises her as a smart woman now, but her lying mouth never stops.

This is a habit, not intentional. At first, I may deliberately want to hide something, but over time, I have formed a habit.

Generally, women who like to lie are extremely inferior psychologically.

Women always say that "men are reliable and sows can climb trees", but there is no essential difference between men and women in lies. Everyone will lie, because sometimes reality needs some "ideas" to fill in.

seek comfort (from sb)

If men lie mostly to cope with the crisis, then women lie more to seek comfort.

Zhang Ailing said that coquetry is a woman's nature and an innate ability.

In the face of people they like or are close to, women will show their weakness in front of them, such as going to trouble first, saying that their feet hurt, asking for a ride and carrying their backs; A person at home, saying fear, seeking companionship; I feel sick, I don't want to move, and so on.

lose patience

Most women are thinner than men, and it is not easy to refuse directly, so choose some "euphemistic" ways to cure them. For example, when it is difficult to get rid of harassment, lie about something or have an appointment to leave for a while, and then run away; Or they often spit on the internet. Girls don't want to talk when chatting online. "I took a shower" and "I have something to do later" are the clearest hints.

Avoid injury

Because of fear of facing the truth, lies become a buffer at critical moments. Women lie not to hurt anyone, but to try their best to maintain a balanced state. For example, in the face of pursuit, "you are a good person" and "I prefer the feeling of being friends with you"; The incumbent asks about the past, underreports the number of predecessors and ignores the details of communication; When evaluating friends, "you are actually handsome" and "not bad".

Keep the image

What men and women have in common in lying is just to make themselves look better.

Men want to save face, while women want to maintain their image. Face is a rough project, and image is a meticulous work.

Therefore, when women weave lies, they will think a lot in their hearts, and the lies will naturally be more true.

For example, in front of outsiders, I don't eat sweets, peppers, eat slowly, don't like to talk, and behave gracefully, but in fact, my true character may not be shown.

At first, I protected myself out of a sense of crisis.

It may become a habit after a long time! ?

Every parent teaches his children to be honest and sincere and not to tell lies. But why do so many people still lie? Today, I want to discuss with you what is the inner world of a girl who tells lies? First of all, I want to tell you that everyone doesn't want to lie at first, because everyone wants to be praised, recognized and respected by others. Lying is a manifestation of her self-protection. When the real self conflicts with others' expectations, girls will make up for it through lies. When lies make them pay the price for sweetness, over time, it becomes an escape habit. When they habitually lie, they don't even think too much. Research shows that girls lie for the following reasons: First, they lie to leave a positive impression on others, or to protect themselves from embarrassment or rejection. Second, lying is for profit. Third, lying is to escape punishment. Fourth, lying can also make others look better or for the benefit of another person. Fifth, lying is for social relations.

So when these liars get along, how can we tell if they are lying?

First, observe the eyes.

Eyes are the windows of the soul, which can best reflect people's psychological activities. When people lie, their mentality will be unbalanced. In order to make up for this imbalance, the body just makes some intentional or unintentional movements and blinks frequently. Statistics show that normal people blink 5-8 times per minute, while liars, because of psychological tension, can also be understood as the brain is running at a high speed, and they will blink frequently unconsciously. There are also some liars, because they know this feature, he is talking and will always stare at you. Note that this is not how hard he is, but that he needs time to observe your reaction to judge whether you believe everything he says, so as to achieve the purpose of cheating.

The above two situations also depend on people. Of course, we can't judge that a person is lying just because he blinks or blinks infrequently, but as long as he makes an abnormal situation, there is a high probability that he is lying.

Second, the body stops.

Liars need to mobilize a large number of brain cells to organize the processing of language information, so their bodies will stop during this time, which is called "freezing behavior". When the other person is lying, after you ask a question, if the other person has this freezing behavior, then you can judge that he may be lying, because he needs to figure out how to lie.

You can also observe a person's eyes. If he looks to the left, he is more likely to lie, because the right brain is used for thinking in images and making up stories; The left brain is responsible for logical thinking and memory management.

Third, the expression lasts too long.

Except for extreme joy or sadness, the expression usually stays on the face for less than 5 seconds, while when a person speaks, he will stay for a longer time in order to convince you. In order to make you believe, the liar keeps this emotion on his face, but it is too much and will make people feel unreal.

Happy and sad emotions are from the heart, not maintained by facial expressions, so it is no problem for the body to keep its face for 5 seconds naturally, which is enough to express the mood. When the other person's expression is infinitely extended, you should pay attention. These reactions may be flattery or jealousy, which deserves your careful consideration.

This is how people get along with each other. Both women and men urgently need sincerity, but everyone can't be perfect, because everyone is not perfect, but everyone is unique. We all need to keep learning and improve our ability to identify lies, so that we can be more active in interpersonal relationships, and at the same time we will not worry about being cheated, and we will also improve our position in the hearts of others.